Oh yes that feeling of getting ignored or going unnoticed. Yup had that trauma myself irl. You know what, I never thought anything was wrong with me, I made a pact with myself that I am just not good at making friends or getting attention. I stopped trying and somehow ignored the feeling of getting ignored. I stopped caring and things fell in place gradually. Nah I am not advising you anything, just sharing my experience with you. PS- that first part sounds like a rap if u try

@RandomCitizen123 I'm almost intimately familiar with this. I do a similar thing, though I wouldn't categorize it as perfectionism. It's different than that. I would have to take some time to think of how to explain it. Pm me if you would like.

@Aimee26 Alter? So, you're a multiple? Apologies if that's not your term

I will give it a try one day, thank you advicing me

@Queencatalina hey PM me let's chat

@ruby200e it's okay to feel unmotivated sometimes. you don't have to be productive 24/7. as long as you have long-term plans, everything should turn out fine. try to accept yourself & the situation you're in, find a good way to relieve stress and change will come. definitely prioritize mental clarity above all. also, try not to fret over having conversations with your coworkers. constantly talking isn't necessarily communicating

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@aGirlHasNoName greeting happy being, U r survivor and very strong mentally, and I respsect for that from my whole heart and mind. 21salutes for you that you didn't kill yourself. Past is gone what ever happened do not matter what you been through in past good or bad , because of your past experience you are what you are now.a strong women with survival instinct. If a being has Birth death is fixed and certain we have to accept it do not matter all have to die one day universal truth it is, that do not stop living life happy .. Regretting about past thinking about it and to fix the problem from past will mess you up more.. You are energy and you carry this human form and only body die, energy nor be created or destroyed it is as it is. Think things which make you happy and positive and live with it having no fear or attachments, y just having Conscious to make you feel happy by not hurting your surroundings till you die. Family , your husband love you from his heart but if you die he won't kill himself because you died. K u had sex and had fun wonderful moments and something to remember in memories, u didnt had sex thinking your boy would come. He choose the human form as you did he is energy and he's suppose to come do not matter with you or without he is lucky he found amazing universal gift as patents like you and your husband with lovley house and dog and fish. He is blessed by universe he will be protected far future.. All the Energies of the all iniberses bless you and guide you what you seek most . Sorry do not get me wrong please forgive of I hurt you in my words may be some sense ( non sense or sense ) Cheers

@Still_kicking I genuinely feel sorry for you, that you still didn’t get what I was actually saying.

That's quite a nice topic here, but I don't think, that many people would show their addiction. I'll start then I think I'm addicted from PC games. There wasn't any day till know, that I wouldn't be playing even for a 10 minutes. If it's not PC, then I'm taking my phone, and I'm playing on it. Of course, I'm not using it at work, or somewhere, when I'm out with friends, but still I think it is addiction. Maybe it sounds stupid, because there are a lot of worse addiction (drugs, alcohol, etc), but still... I think it's a really nice topic, and maybe some other people will share their addiction, and maybe we could help each other out

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Interesting video. Quite thought provoking. Do that, learn. But don't get entrapped in the absoluteness of self mastery either. The whole gnostic idea of enlightenment and self-salvation also has it's weaknesses. One of which is, that we are not going to save ourselves, we are going to be saved by the one who loves us most. But don't let that stop you from growing eh? Nothing wrong with personal growth. It's just better to grow in trust too at the same time.

@RussianBlue Santa's favorite! (Mine, too) heehee

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am male and i am also bisexual so nobody really cares about and am a mix up from Buddism and shindosm cause of asian but rly when u fall in love with someone follow ur heart whatever religion u got

@Nibba-Pig I see. Socially spent then

smoke a few ciggies

@Bruhzilian-Guy

@G-A Although astrological signs (both the chinese and the equally old Babilonic/Persian signs) are indeed a type of archetypical defining of one's personality, Astrology is, as far as my understanding of it goes, a method of determination through suggestibility of archetypical features. It was extremely useful in the past, as a mean to equally distribute desirable traits in a early developing societal structure. This video shows a more "up to date", so to speak, understanding of the complexity and variety of human psyche and it's flexibility. So, if we were to speak about astrological archetypes, consider the idea of "Psychological Rebirth" as a complete reset of one's sign. I guess we could say that if you were supposed to be a aquarian, but somehow being an aquarian proved to be detrimental to your life, you could go through a change in personality so drastic that you wouldn't be considered an aquarian anymore if you went through the rebirth. Sorry if this whole astrological talk seems rather simplistic, I only know some aspects of it.

@Vicious-Retard Seriously though, maybe you have a slight case of OCD. I've known several people who almost mirror the way you feel, and that's what they had.

Guest said in How do you deal with loneliness?: hmmmm this an important question maybe loneliness is not a bad thing. I like to be lonely and i enjoy it. if you feel that the world hates you then they can go to hell because you have one thing nobody else has : Yourself

try listening to the most vapid music you can imagine and watch meaninless action movies like kingsment

it feels good but it gets uncomfortable when things are good and same always. there is always a need for change in our lives.

@Kakashi said in Many People Talk About Different Forms Of Mental Health Issues....... So here I Go: @Durwin Dude, why would you want to suffer in silence? Have your voice heard, make your presence felt! "Count your blessings, not your flaws" :)) Thanks dude. Regarding the suffering in silence... when you have spent years in circumstances talking to those close to you and they listen, but the don't Listen , if you get what I mean, then you have to learn mechanisms and methods to cope. Then after so long of this, you start to realise that you can overcome the demons inside, you can win this battle .... of course there will always be minor skirmishes in there.... but in the end .... you come out Winning ... you come out Stronger