Love is the entire point of everything

i could write an essay on the topic XD, but i'll try sparing you the boring stuff..
i personally describe it like flying, you feel wheightless, kind of an overwhelming happiness! Also, love can come in many forms, like stated above, its not monotone. You can feel all kinds of true love, for your family, friends, platonic love and yes, the so called romantic love and all forms are equally amazing.

It is true that maintaing love is hard work and not a bed of roses as @Lïa said, but at the same time i also believe that it should be natural and most of the times it is, since you cant really force something that's between two different people (or you definitely shouldnt, as you also should not give up on it if your heart doesnt want to).

On one hand, and i think that this particularly apllies to you, it requires a level of vulnerability that can be hard for most of us, especially in the first stages of love or when we are not sure about what the other is thinking. On the other hand, love usually fails when there is unbalance in the relationship.. the feeling of love can be intoxicating and you should always try to maintain perspective of yourself and what you want or are aiming for in life, in a broader sense. There is not one love in life, but there should always be love in your heart.

You can only truly love others when you love yourself, and that is a tough lesson to learn.

As everything has a soundtrack in my head XD, i'll leave you with a song i heard a while ago, but came to me when i first read your post.
I'm done ranting XD. Hope it makes sense.

«Love is not something you try to do, it wants to be the thing compelling you..to be you.»

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmEzW7aS1dA

@Ruth dayum
You don't talk like a 12 yr dw
Why do you think like that
I said that cause i was a dumb pig when i was 18
So i am glad new generation isn't like that
As a senior old lady i am happy for yu guys

@Ruth damn ruth why are you already so mature at this age
I am so so glad for you 🥺
You are so right when you feel desperate for things you make wrong choices, i am so proud of you 🥺
Damn you are already a big girl now
Lots of love and wishes for you ️️

No words. It is different for all.

Ikr my past relationships were a wake up call for me from the fairytale i was living in when i was a teen

Like you i also love to know about the experiences of people, it gives us better understanding of situations and we get to know a different perspective,which feels magical.
But again experiencing it yourself is way more magical and fun

From my experiences falling for someone is easy, but truly loving them through thick and thin isn't, so i believe love is hard. I don't get it when people say that love shouldn't be hard, it should be natural for it to work.
Loving is just not missing someone, wanting to spend time with them.
Loving is working on things together with your partner, making it work despite harsh situations,circumstances. Loving is accepting each others flaws and wokring on one's self development, where you just don't sit on the shit( problems ) you clean it and work on it. And it's not easy, especially when you are not mentally and emotionally mature enough to understand things and deal with them properly.
When you are with someone you don't just get to know that person only, you also get to know more about yourself as well, and trust me knowing and accepting ourself is harder than accepting others
And i would say accepting ourselves and others doesn't mean we are gonna ignore or put up with the poor behaviour, both party needs to work on it.
So my dear @Ruth it has always been this kind of love in my life where it takes time,efforts,forgiveness,acceptance, self improvement to truly love someone.
Or maybe i was just too fucked to begin with that's why i had it hard
And i feel like i got distracted from the main topic idk
Anyways if you need advice about love life you know who to ask right

@ih8lyfe so sad people don't ever respect others even when they don't love them back. Take heart all will be well some day

i can be v your friend I'm 46

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looking for genuine friends to talk to

Hi everyone!
How does it work, I am a newbie.

Hi @sul99 .. 5 to 6 yrs friendship only not understanding us correctly .. how come 5 to 6 mins chat will decide friendships.. it’s quite tuff,, anyways u try .. u may get…

@sul99 even I don't have friends to talk so it would be better if we become good friends

i have friends, but not a lot outside of school. the kids on my block all moved and rn i don't go to any extra classes or places where i can meet new ppl
i really like music, i like video games and shows like anime or like breaking bad or smth idk

@im_tired ...i was saying atleast you HAVE A FAMILY well family issues I can understand about that tho yea they VERY discriminate against children and i hated it lol also about that they never had time apparently ugh parents Can't even appreciate US

@_itz_rose_ does it look like a joke?

Friends should be told in order to hear what they think

@im_tired is this a joke

Hi there

I have been trying to keep up with my family but right now im in a tough position...well normally i would tell my friends about this but they won't understand..

shit i felt that, dm me bro i will help you out where i can , no one should feel useless whilst there are others willing to help

It's been over 4 years since the divorce. I'm tired of the loneliness. I'm tired of no one to talk to laugh and enjoy life. Everytime I meet someone new my ex finds out and starts stuff and then .ghosted. why can't she let me be happy hell she's about to be remarried

Why is it so hard to get trust from your loved ones? How to get them to believe you?

With myself.