Why do loyal people often get hurt in a relationship ?

[Lolxlmao]

Like been cheated on, and so on. They don't deserve pain :(
Why is that? And what do y'all think?

[Shardana]

Loyalty is one of the highest virtues, but it is often seen as a symptom of weakness, especially by those who don't even know what it is, because they lack moral principles. For some it is boring, so they look for new stimuli elsewhere, because they know they will still have a safe haven to return to .. like a faithful animal waiting for its master to return. Just as in the food chain the strongest eats the weakest, so in relationships the most stupid often makes sensitive, honest people suffer. Cheating is not love, it is disrespect, which is the basis of any type of relationship. You can choose to continue suffering in a disturbed relationship or walk away with dignity. For your love and his/her too. It serves to grow and be reborn :)

[Devriar]

same fuckin thing happened with me today!

[Devriar]

@Lolxlmao yes

[simmy persaud]

@Lolxlmao cos they are so inlove that they dont realise they will get hurt :( :( :(

[simmy persaud]

@KARLOS69 ya i really dont get the idea of cheating cos how can someone say I LOVE YOU TO SOMEOE AND SAY IT TO THE NEXT without feeling guilty like that shit is :(

[jelly]

uh cuz they love too much?

[simmy persaud]

@Lolxlmao sometimes u just want them to feel the pain but also want to see them happy (IDC IF HE LEAVE ME BUT IF HE CHEATS IMMA FRICKING BREAK HIS DICK IN HALF) :innocent:

[Charlish]

@Lolxlmao it is just like a chemical imbalance

[arditm]

Don't dispair. One day you'll find someone just as loyal as you

[Abhay_]

Because most of them choose wrong people😂

[Allison]

Because you're loyal/attached to something that went away and now looks like a lie. That's called pain. You're holding on to what should have been & it's already grown inside you but will now rot.

[Charlish]

@Lolxlmao people will take advantage of your love if u make it easy for them to get a lot of love from u without giving u the same amount of love

[KARLOS69]

@Lolxlmao because people are just stupid and let the other cheat then they forgive the cheater and that gives the cheater the go ahead to cheat again Never forgive

[KARLOS69]

Never forgive someone who cheats as if you do they'll do it again and again

[KARLOS69]

Yes it is so true But once a cheater always and cheating scumbag

[Shardana]

@test_account said in Why do loyal people often get hurt in a relationship ?:

ery true, I've told my friends this many times. Hate how the innocent tend to match up with the manipulative.

I agree..Correct manipulators! very often the cheaters, the liars tend to be manipulative .. the problem is that if we do not get away from unhealthy relationships, we will always be the only ones to suffer :(

[Shardana]

@Devriar
I'm sorry. :( Take a deep breath, learn your lesson and look forward

[Shardana]

@Devriar
I didn't say anything in particular, but I did it with real pleasure :)
My best, best wishes

[Shardana]

@Kiersen Interesting .. but
Loyalty cannot be imposed, it is an act of freedom in which a person chooses who or what to offer commitment, respect and interest to. Those who are loyal make a courageous choice, that of following their own moral principles and if you follow them, you cannot balance them, you cannot choose to be too much or not honest .. I don't think it can be quantified. If it were possible to balance it, we would risk falling into hypocyrisy .. and hypocrisy is contrary to loyalty.
Finally, being yourself is the only option I know .. because otherwise, with filters and masks you risk being a simple character, an extra ... more mask than person ... maybe you won't make many friends, but you will have those right. :)