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    Matt_Aranha

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    • RE: bye-bye talkwithstanger

      @fai said in bye-bye talkwithstanger:

      I’m just kidding, I thought @TM β€˜s goodbye topic/message was poorly done, so here it is.. make use of it next time please~

      I hear you, and will say I have never understood why so many folk here insist on leaving these epic goodbye posts, other than to give their own egos a rub. A lot of site users don't have a clue who some of these people are, a lot of the ones who do couldn't care much less anyway, and often enough once they've had their fix of attention they come straight back anyway (or don't even leave at all πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ). Of all the online communities I've seen, this is the only one where I've noticed this phenomenon... like, whomever it is if you're going to f**k off, just go already πŸ˜‚πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

      posted in Internet is Beautiful
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: Is there such a thing? Tell me?

      @Sooomeeeh Love, definitely. True love? Well that's trickier. I think it depends on your definition of true love.

      The purest love is that which has no agenda and is given freely. It is given from a place of compassion, through eyes which see the best in the receiver of the beholder's affection. No part of it comes from fear, and if unrequited prompts no jealously or ill-will.

      We are biochemically predisposed to making all manner of intimate connections and there is no reason those connections can't come from those we meet and only have contact with online. We don't need physical presence for the relevant pathways to form. I can hold my hand up and say there are people I've (only ever) met online whom I have loved and cared for very deeply.

      We are in a very new age, in real terms. Meeting new people isn't confined to the methods it was even twenty years ago. When two people are right for each other, they can (and usually will) work to find a way to make things work whatever their circumstances.

      I don't believe that we have "one soul mate" but do believe in a small handful of people who are perfect for us and us them. If we are lucky enough to find each other (these people some call soul mates, these relationships some call true love), the circumstances of meeting don't matter. You have the potential to recognise each other online, if you are sincere, true, and know enough about each other. I think that being able to voice message and Facetime makes that even easier.

      So I've convinced myself that the answer is yes you can, but then I'm a hopelessly optimistic (if also realistic) romantic. All I would advise is, if you should find yourself in that situation, be sure of yourself and take care. Sometimes we can accidentally trick ourselves into seeing and feeling things which are not truly there, especially when they are missing from our lives or we are seeking them out. When the offline world catches up with us it can give quite a shock; self-awareness is crucial.

      posted in Discuss Anything
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: Can you be connected to someone so deeply that...

      @petrapark3r I reckon so. It's like when your gut tells you a particular person is about to ring you and then they do, or other times when you just "know" in your gut something is wrong re someone.

      When my ex was pregnant with our son I experienced the phenomenon referred to as Couvade Syndrome. I would often have left the house for work before half-seven leaving her in bed so couldn't possibly know what kind of day she was going to have, then at work I'd get the pregnancy symptoms, know roughly when she woke/got up, if she was having a bad day my back would be in agony and I could barely walk, and so on...

      posted in Questions & Answers from Strangers
      Matt_Aranha
      Matt_Aranha
    • Top non-English language tracks

      What's some of your favourite music not in the English language to listen to? I'm going to crack this open with Cuban heroes Buena Vista Social Club, it never fails to wind me down if I feel the need to chill out.

      posted in Songs & Music (SoundCloud
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: What is it you really don't like in a partner?

      @petrapark3r Lack of consideration/consistency. Not reciprocating effort. Projection.

      Oh and duvet hogging πŸ˜‚

      posted in Questions & Answers from Strangers
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: i fucked up and i dont think i could fix it..........

      @Queen-Succubus Worst case, you learn from this, it feels shitty for a while, but you grow and become better from the experience. Best case, whomever you hurt is understanding enough to know that everyone fucks up, nobody is perfect, that you truly regret what happened and want to put things right, and they let you. Even the worse case is a positive, if you allow it to be.

      Whatever happens I hope the situation gets sorted out soon and you can move forward in peace.

      posted in Questions & Answers from Strangers
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: BLACK HOLE

      @OliveOlivia The intense gravitational pull will crush us all? Maybe? πŸ˜₯

      posted in Science & Philosophy
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: Who cares about stranger ?

      @Ash005 I'm well and truly in the same corner as @kaia_ here. I quite often get asked why I care about strangers so much. I always ask them back, why WOULDN'T I care? I've never had anyone be able to answer me that.

      I find it sad when people find online connections purely superfluous. When you reach out and support someone, or they offer you support and and help to you if you should need it, how is that not productive? If we nurtured our relationships with strangers and shared our wisdom and compassion instead of being dismissive and viewing each other as "ships that pass in the night", would that not help us all grow/flourish and then in turn our society?

      I'm delighted for you that you have parents who are constantly there, but you only need to look around some of the threads on this very site to realise how naΓ―ve a position it is to think it is the case for everybody. The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb; some people are crying out for a friendly ear from a stranger simply because they do not have love at home and have not been shown kindness in the real world.

      I am not suggesting friendships made online are meant to last forever; I believe in people coming into our lives when we need them, some stay, some go. I'd ask how many real world connections last a lifetime? People who have grown up together often drift apart. I don't think a lack of visual/audio/physical contact is an obstacle to friendship or to the simple capacity in one's heart to care. It's all about intent and the effort you are prepared to make.

      posted in Internet is Beautiful
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: What would you choooooose? (:

      @robthehood I mean I'd just wish for the extreme persuasiveness skill, the second part is just what I'd use it for (first 😜). I can construct a good solid argument as it is but some folk just don't care so shut their ears off and for those folks you need Jedi mind trick levels of persuasion πŸ˜‚

      posted in Discuss Anything
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: Eight Questions

      @OliveOlivia said in Eights Questions:

      1. If you had a time machine would you visit the past or the future? Why?

      The future, to gain some knowledge which would enable me to acquire a position of wealth/power I could then use to halt and hopefully reverse the coming cataclysm

      1. What do you wish you were really good at?

      Reading and interpreting signals as applied to me on an interpersonal level

      1. If you could jump into a pool of something, what would it be?

      Wine gums

      1. Whats your favorite joke?

      What's green and smells like blue paint? Green paint

      1. If you could be a fictional character who would you be? Why?

      Doctor Manhattan. The power to fix pretty much everything, prevent wars before they begin, solve the energy crisis, develop total understanding of the universe, travel anywhere and see everything, pause time...

      1. What kind of things really make you laugh?

      Silliness, absurdity, surrealism. Wit before humour. Dad jokes. Joy.

      1. What is something that you think is overrated? Why do you think that?

      Meme culture. I enjoy a good meme as much as anybody but I must emphasise GOOD. It has become too easy for any talentless schmuck to stick some words on an irrelevant picture and get applauded as clever for it. There is a plethora of truly shit memes out there people insist on sharing, typically where someone has just noticed they can switch a letter or word in a well-known phrase for something similar sounding. This does not make it automatically humorous or smart...

      1. How do you feel about TWS?

      The random chat bit I've used for a couple of years? It's alright, I've had some software issues but it's useful enough. This community aspect? I'm undecided although there are many things I like - ask me again in a while when I've been here more than a couple of weeks

      posted in Questions & Answers from Strangers
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      Matt_Aranha

    Latest posts made by Matt_Aranha

    • RE: I know most of you are gamers buuuuuut

      Star Trek: The Lost Era - The Art Of The Impossible was my most recent one.

      A terribly geeky shout I know, but well-written, full of delightful nods for fans, and an excellent analysis for some modern day politics too.

      posted in Discuss Anything
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: I’m delicate, I’m classy

      @dani_mart And why indeed oughtn't you? I hope that you and that which you seek find one another soon πŸ™

      posted in Single
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: Looking for vinyl enthusiast friends

      @blackwolf-0 I was mate... when my son's mother and I separated she kept my whole collection. I never found out what happened to it, whether it got sold (like she did with some other things of mine), scrapped, or swiped for her own collection. I had some corkers there, unplayed records worth three figure sums, discs I'd hunted for ages for, nostalgia/sentimental tracks, records my Grandad had bought me from when I was as young as two and we'd go shopping in town together, ones I'd inherited from my mum's and my dad's collections that I listened to as a child... it's a great format, but I haven't bought any since, I cannot start again or replace what's been lost.

      posted in Music Lovers
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: any followers wanna talk? πŸ’“πŸ˜ŠπŸ’

      @lisamini Ahhhh, you're a northerner too - as a matter of fact I'm off to Salford for the day on Thursday! Hope you're well, chats/friends are always good - my DMs are open. Stay safe πŸ‘

      posted in Discuss Anything
      Matt_Aranha
      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: FACE REVEAL (@Im-Bored gonna show himself!!!)

      @wtfjudith said in FACE REVEAL (@Im-Bored gonna show himself!!!):

      @da-pic said in NUDES FOR FACE REVEAL (@Im-Bored gonna show himself!!!):

      I don't look as sexy as my pfp IRL tho

      I DONT CARE, BEAUTY IS SUBJECTIVE, PLUS ALL I WANT TO DO IS ASSOCIATE A REAL FACE TO A PERSON
      WHEN I CHAT WITH SOMEONE I LIKE TO KNOW WHO I’M TALKING TO!!!

      That's actually really wholesome and logical πŸ‘€

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      posted in Internet is Beautiful
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: my weekend! 😊 (i'm late-ish -_-)

      It was decent. Friday I woke up in London after arriving the day before. Chilled day then went to see Dear Evan Hansen in the evening.

      Saturday was busy. Up early for breakfast, brief nap at the hotel, then off to see Phantom of the Opera in the afternoon. Dined out on some fine pizza, then off to yet another theatre to see The Woman In Black afterwards.

      Sunday was a shift down in gear, a very relaxed day lounging before checking out ABBA Voyage.

      posted in United Kingdom
      Matt_Aranha
      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: Hello everyone.

      @julie-dogs-lover said in Hello everyone.:

      Phoenix point ? What is it ?

      Do you know the XCOM reboot games by Firaxis? It's a game in the style of those, but is made by the guy who created the original X-Com series back in the '90s. So a bit of the best of both worlds.

      posted in Discuss Anything
      Matt_Aranha
      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: The amount of people around here

      @julie-dogs-lover It's definitely not as busy as it used to be. And I'm afraid I can't stick around, I'm off to an evening at the theatre now πŸ™ˆ

      posted in Discuss Anything
      Matt_Aranha
      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: Hello everyone.

      @julie-dogs-lover Oh cool 😊 Resi is my favourite series, although I'm a big fan of 4X and management type games too. Currently it's Phoenix Point which is swallowing all my free time up πŸ˜‚

      posted in Discuss Anything
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      Matt_Aranha
    • RE: Hello everyone.

      @julie-dogs-lover Hello! Which video games? πŸ‘€

      posted in Discuss Anything
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      Matt_Aranha