@Blythe0601 Life comes with many desires like I'd say always striving to be best I guess?? It truly prominent enjoying all those qualities if only things working your wish. In my early childhood stages, I wanted many things so bad that I was always attached to the delightful results I hoped for.....many things often didn't work out well. ofc that follows stress, guilt, anxiety and all that sth that drains your energy and peace. It not good emotion psychologically but at least gives a lesson or two. Just hold your ________ together and with that, self-esteem stays intact. Also, I love playing chess and that helps drive stress.