try listening to the most vapid music you can imagine and watch meaninless action movies like kingsment

it feels good but it gets uncomfortable when things are good and same always. there is always a need for change in our lives.

@randomcitizen123 It seems to me that you are a good nature'd person that has concerns over other people and how they are/think. Without knowing your age it is difficult to give an idea as to the potability of anxiety or not. At the rip old age of 42 I have (for many years now) always been concerned about what others think, but not so much that it would cause me personal issues..... for example: I used to be extremely conscious of my size (build) ... to the point that if I was sitting by the river on a summers day I could hear others joking about my stature.... This however did not stop me from going the the river to enjoy my time there. I would suggest that you may need to learn not to over think about what others are saying or thinking about you. If there is something that they are saying (negatively) about you but not saying it to your face then they are the one's that have the problem because they can't speak directly to you. This would also suggest that they are not worth your time, effort or thought. If on the other hand they mentioned to you what they were saying (good or bad) then maybe they are worth making time for.... because they have taken the time to communicate to you their thought's or feelings. End of the day, don't waste your time on it....

@randomcitizen123 I don't know how to fix depression, but you could start by fixing things you can fix, maybe fix your diet, exercise, get a meaningful job or find meaning in your job, help your neighbours, clean your house, wake up at the same time everyday. Basically get a routine and stick to it. Hopefully, you can fill your day up so there's no room for depressing feelings.

@shadowstardust82 worry not... i dunno if im old enough to give advice, but just know that all you need is hope... you're not dead yet right? Then try to think of things you wish to stay alive for.... life is like a ticket to an amusement park, either use it for yourself or dedicate the time for someone else, your choice Hakuna matata!

@neeraj-singh that goes without saying

@sᴛʀᴀɴɢᴇʀ said in Let's talk about stuff and stuff anxiety: @cjko exactly correct YEAH.. you should apply this too

@rendezvous where have you been ? Welcome

@justchatamy although i don't identify myself with these problems but it is true that there are a lot of people who are always trying to attain something in their life. These people are always running for something in their life which is meaningless. Thus, they have these depressions because they will never be satisfied with what they have because running and trying to achieve something has become their very nature. I think the only solution for this is to let go of these ego of trying to achieve something whether it is trying to make your life happier or anything. I think a clear vision is needed about our life, it is very beautiful. I don't mean to say that trying is not needed , i just think that an ego less trying can make a person's life beautiful. Also, look at these amazing websites we have, it has never been so easy to connect with so much people just with a single site. We can enjoy to fullest with our life through these amazing sites, isn't it? You have a very good solution amy about being honest, listening, opening up. I absolutely love those solutions. Thank you! P.S. TWS is one of the best site you can find in the web currently, the UI design is very consistent and friendly, also with all these features.

open your eyes widely so you can see the person who really cares about you and try to give her a chance don't say there's no one cause always there's someone who wants to be with you but you never notice ..

Honestly he seems like a piece of shit and I don't doubt youre one too

take my advice and LEAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it will hurt and it'll be scary. you do NOT want to go down that road with some useless a***e who doesnt give a fk about anyone but himself. get out now while you have the chance and the strength because if you stick around it will only get worse. PEOPLE CANT CHANGE

@hope-elizabeth hey follow me and send a msg I'll read you a story

@wound_dagger Oh yes. It's pathological even. I have a social anxiety disorder and an avoidant personality disorder diagnoses.

@hermit why thank you. This type of positivity is always needed, it's just some people need it more some days than others. Hopefully you don't need it too often, but I try to bring it when you do.

@dangerouswoman one of the things I try for most.

@megan-meunier thanks but ive tried it not for me