Success is not the key to happiness.
Happiness is the key to success.
If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.
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RE: Tips for sleeping in correct time. (Mostly in night)
@Ash-exe Try to not drink any fluids 1–2 hours before going to bed.
You should also use the bathroom right before going to bed, as this may decrease your chances of waking in the night.
I wake up at 5am in the morning everyday.
Recently I start falling asleep around 8pm, is not usual for me.(◔‿◔) You are lightly to fall asleep faster when you're tired, so try to be active during the day.
RE: ٩(๛ ˘ ³˘)۶♥Success is not the key to happiness?
@GreyWind Two of the most problematic
concepts in the English language are ‘success’
and ‘happiness’. It is two different word and they don't need to rely on each other, only if you needed both for your own satisfaction. Success means striving for more. Happiness is being contented
with whatever you have. ^_________^
Most people also have a strong desire to be successful in life and they tend to believe that through this success they will automatically become happier.(◠‿◕)
(♡˙︶˙♡)Falling in love is a conscious choice? (♡˙︶˙♡)
Falling in love is not an act of will. It is not a conscious choice. No matter how open to or eager for it we may be, the experience may still elude us. Contrarily, the experience may capture us at times when we are definitely not seeking it, when it is inconvenient and undesirable.
We are as likely to fall in love with someone with whom we are obviously ill matched as with someone more suitable. Indeed, we may not even like or admire the object of our passion, yet, try as we might, we may not be able to fall in love with a person whom we deeply respect and with whom a deep relationship would be in all ways desirable.
This is not to say that the experience of falling in love is immune to discipline. Psychiatrists, for instance, frequently fall in love with their patients, just as their patients fall in love with them, yet out of duty to the patient and their role they are usually able to abort the collapse of their ego boundaries and give up the patient as a romantic object.
The struggle and suffering of the discipline involved may be enormous. Discipline and will can only control the experience; they cannot create it. We can choose how to respond to the experience of falling in love, but we cannot choose the experience itself.
ʕ•ﻌ•ʔʕ•ﻌ•ʔ●A little possibility...●ʕ•ﻌ•ʔʕ•ﻌ•ʔ
Sometimes is quite worth it to find a lost friend here, but is it only you that's reaching out for them. I was once thinking of doing it, then I stopped because I realized people don't really care that much unless there's a personal interest on that person. After all no one ever searched for me.
Good luck with those who's still searching, a little conversation can be very meaningful to someone.
Be cleared to your intentions, misleading can creates misunderstanding..
You're going to meet many people with domineering personalities: the loud, the obnoxious, those that noisily stake their claims in your territory and everywhere else they set foot on.
This is the blueprint of a predator. Predators prey on gentleness, peace, calmness, sweetness and any positivity that they sniff out as weakness.
Anything that is happy and at peace they mistake for weakness.
It's not your job to change these people, but it's your job to show them that your peace and gentleness do not equate to weakness.
I have always appeared to be fragile and delicate but the thing is, I am not fragile
and I am not delicate.
I am very gentle but I can show you that the gentle also possess a poison. I compare myself to silk.
People mistake silk to be weak but a silk handkerchief can protect the wearer from a gunshot.
There are many people who will want to be friend with you if you fit the description of what they think is weak; predators want to have friends that they can dominate over because that makes them feel strong and important.
The truth is that predators have no strength and no courage. It is you who are strong, and it is you who has courage. I have lost many a friend over the fact that when they attempt to rip me, they can't.
They accuse me of being deceiving;
I am not deceiving, I am just made of silk.
It is they who are stupid and wrongly take gentleness and fairness for weakness.
There are many more predators in this world,
so I want you to be made of silk. You are silk.
RE: (♡˙︶˙♡)Falling in love is a conscious choice? (♡˙︶˙♡)
@Scottish Yes for sure, love is inadequate to express in words...