@allallalalalla You deserve better, and you need to have the hard conversation with him. Fear of breaking up is not a healthy reason to stay together; he has deceived and disrespected you.

I feel so much for what you're going through, the pain and angst must feel crushing at times... but if your relationship can't survive him the aftermath of him reading an honest letter about how you feel, that should tell you all you need to know about your future together 😞

@someone216 yeah i get it, i understand how hard it is to break up and how bad you would feel, but please, make no mistake, first time that you feel like somebody else might be better person for you, thats the signal you should always take, no exceptions. And i will repeat myself sorry, but, if you break up now it will be a lot easier than looking back to this moment 2 years from now and wandering what life would be like if you had broken up while it was not too late. Trust me, i myself had a relationship that i didnt want to end because of feeling the grief, but you are doing him more damage by staying with him while you dont really, truly want that, than to leave him straight. I know its hard, but its for the best. Thats my advice, hope you get your feelings sorted out.

I think it's fine! You should play the field. Just do not lie to someone else about your intentions. Plainly say. I am looking for friends and fun. If Mr or Mrs right comes along great if not that's ok too. Only one way to find that person I'd to look. Don't let anyone else shame you!

okay, so here is advice from a medical student and grooming freak, first off use wax stribs, then use some glycolic acid liquid or cream from your local chemist and lastly, use deodorant on top. Apply body mist. Don't use lotion on your armpits.

@bunbun123 That's so strange, but it might be that he is seeing someone else and as a result he lost interest in you. There is no way a guy will not get aroused when he is around his lady.

@7DS-Escanor nope, some of them are nice tho 😂
Not all of them are scary.
You just have to be you and have a little faith btw.

Pro-Tip : You dont have to listen to it by any means but have a little class moving forward and don't refer to your ex as "Baby Momma"

@Axtonishing-wowie Well, there's plenty of fish in the sea and how far a good fisherman stretches the truth depends on the length of his arms. I also have a hook if you like🤣🤣🤣

Thank you all of you for the wonderful and comforting replies. I am also sorry to hear about the situation you're in @Doc2.0 and I pray that your days get better! As for me, I have been recovering really well the past few weeks and it rarely bothers me anymore. I once again thank all of you for the help and support on this random website I found on google and for taking time to write a reply to help a stranger. I wish all of you the best of luck in your future endeavors!

Cheers!
-Joe

@missflower890 Don't put a deadline on your life. It's not a race. Follow your heart, be open to love, put away your pride in some cases. Great guys are out there, you'll be lucky enough to stumble across one or two. Just know what you want and what you are ready for.

@4857-RUTVIK-DABHI hey broooooooooo

@Lays not so great. 😔

@ImThatGirl do you ever DM or are you a purely topical person lolol

@Shardana Quite enlightening , frankly i agree with you coz expectation in my views should be a fine line on which we should walk like high or no expectations ruins the relationship. Moreover i like the idea of 2 poles and i think your soulmate are those who poles resonate with you . Anyways thanks for your opinion

Wow!That's quite the debate 🌹