Thank you all of you for the wonderful and comforting replies. I am also sorry to hear about the situation you're in @Doc2.0 and I pray that your days get better! As for me, I have been recovering really well the past few weeks and it rarely bothers me anymore. I once again thank all of you for the help and support on this random website I found on google and for taking time to write a reply to help a stranger. I wish all of you the best of luck in your future endeavors!
@missflower890 Don't put a deadline on your life. It's not a race. Follow your heart, be open to love, put away your pride in some cases. Great guys are out there, you'll be lucky enough to stumble across one or two. Just know what you want and what you are ready for.
@Shardana Quite enlightening , frankly i agree with you coz expectation in my views should be a fine line on which we should walk like high or no expectations ruins the relationship. Moreover i like the idea of 2 poles and i think your soulmate are those who poles resonate with you . Anyways thanks for your opinion