@come-in-3s I been there with one of my ex's We had split ... badly .... didnt speak for a few years .... bumped into each other .... got talking, got back together.... another bad split .... then 9 years later , I contacted her for private reasons, we got on sooooo much it was unreal , for her to tell me she was getting married .... I was gutted ... but also relieved , because when you revisit the past after a bad break up that will always be in the back of your head..... Its a very very hard thing to overcome