@adyyan said in how single are you ?: @mr_peanut hahah dude look you might have someone special staring at you lol Haha, yea maybe... but I’m never that lucky

@justchatamy although i don't identify myself with these problems but it is true that there are a lot of people who are always trying to attain something in their life. These people are always running for something in their life which is meaningless. Thus, they have these depressions because they will never be satisfied with what they have because running and trying to achieve something has become their very nature. I think the only solution for this is to let go of these ego of trying to achieve something whether it is trying to make your life happier or anything. I think a clear vision is needed about our life, it is very beautiful. I don't mean to say that trying is not needed , i just think that an ego less trying can make a person's life beautiful. Also, look at these amazing websites we have, it has never been so easy to connect with so much people just with a single site. We can enjoy to fullest with our life through these amazing sites, isn't it? You have a very good solution amy about being honest, listening, opening up. I absolutely love those solutions. Thank you! P.S. TWS is one of the best site you can find in the web currently, the UI design is very consistent and friendly, also with all these features.

I feel for you and have some insight into how you are feeling. It is fear that is trapping you in this situation. But what is causing the fear ? Is the thought of being rejected and the emotional discomfort you will have to endure ? Is it a fear of not being able to continue a conversation ? Is it a fear that you think someone will recognise or discover some part of you you desperately want to keep hidden ?? Is it the fear that someone will realise you are terrified of being how you are now ? Beleive me, even the most outwardly confident person has fears, and a lot of those seemingly outwardly confident people have learnt the art of masking their fears so few people notice them. This is why there is the adage that bullies are really cowards. When I was a baby I tried walking. It was difficult and I had to try many times before I could even stand on my own. I have no idea how many times I tried and fell, but I persevered until I could stand and walk from one peice of furniture to another. This is how life is. If you are in a crowded room I bet you are not the only one feeling isolated, and I bet you are not the only one who doesnt want to feel isolated. Tell someone how you feel. Maybe you can see someone who looks as alone as you feel. Tell them, I hate these situations. I seem to spend the whole time wishing I wasnt here. What do all these people find to talk about with each other. You might be surprised how welcome your honesty is seized upon. Like that baby who kept falling down we can only keep trying. One action I took which changed me and my life was I enrolled in a public speaking course. I remember a surgeon being in the class, he stuttered and just about told the class his name, but my goodness, by the end of the course he was an oratory superman. Imagine going thru school, college, university, medical college, working night and day in a hospital setting, specialising in a medical subject to be a surgeon, and yet, be terrified to speak to people ... what hell he must have lived thru .... but, the moment he admitted his "problem" all the help and encouragement he needed was there for him. You can do it for yourself. Next time you are in a group setting speak to someone, Ask someone if they enjoy those functions, or do they hate them. You could be the lifesaver someone else is looking for,,,,,,,,,,

@boots22 I know you all are and well... this is someway I’m saying thanks to you all

@drago ok

@tainted-love Kubrick + Bowie = awesome

@i-am-me read "social" in an interview with the author of social, i heard him say that. Here it is (the interview/podcast)