Well that's an interesting question .. When fate forces you to choose between your mind and your heart, you will have already lost, because putting your heart first will reveal to you much on the other side of you.” Although the conclusion and real, and which must be the most correct, is that life brings you together with people who seem to be right for you or Temporarily suitable for you, but the fact that they are not originally suitable for your personality.This is what you have to accept.Life is complex and you need all possible odds to reach the goal.