• I just wish It never happened.... Suffering sucks in general but suffering alone is worse..... I get there's a "lesson" but what the hell did I do to deserve it in such a horrible way. It feels like it's my fault and I know my faults but am I really that horrible of person...


  • @MartyBadger trust me I'm suffering haha


  • @Angel94647

    None of it is your fault, there are things in life you can't control and this is one of em. Don't beat yourself cuz of it try to find the best way to cope


  • Wish I knew how. How are you doing it? You seem further along than I am.


  • I have no personal experience of this. Not a single bit. But what I can tell you is that if you REALLY loved that person, you wouldn't be doubting your love. Follow that voice that has been guiding you through every obstacle in your life. Then you'll know!


  • @Angel94647

    Thanks but I really just keep up a good act so I don't worry ppl or make them pity me! Deep down I feel like you do.


  • @Angel94647 You feel that he had really good traits and this was just one stupid reason. You feel this way because you love that person and your mind doesn’t digest his flaws. It may seem like a little reason to you but in reality, he is so off! Love needs the most compromises. Through love you realise that to stay true to yourself you have to stay true to your loved one. And compromise anything for them. He says he didn’t want to compromise for you? And you think he loved you?

    You deserve much better. Someone that will fight destiny for you. It may seem unrealistic and all fairytale-like but trust me, true love does exist. And it takes pain, time, and knowing your standard as to reach it. And you should get over that person that can’t change single things for you and higher your standards to someone that will change the world for you. That’s all I have to say, good luck.


  • @Lurker well maybe its because we're going through the same thing but I don't pity you. Yeah I don't want pity either but it feels nice to have people care or understand.


  • @Angel94647

    I certainly do understand and i dont want anyone going over this so i also care about ppl that does... and because of that my dms are always open in case you wanna chat or vent about anything.


  • @Lurker i agree..find someone better