@Karina-Kara said in My family is hiding something from me . . .: My mother once told me not too many months ago that a time will come were "i will be old enough to know about certain topics". And to be blunt; My family does have some secrets that are not always pleasent to hear. But nothing out of the ordinary. Every family and kin has that. Yet somehow, even before that conversation has happend (and that talk did not end nicely from my part), i have always had the assumption that my family hides some sort of uncomfortable truth from and about me. "To keep me safe" as they would probably declare it if i will be able to find it out on my own. Of course, asking here for consulting is not the brightest choice i have made in my life, but what else can i do? My mother (the only family member that i am currently and willingly talking with) always refused such accusations. Strangely, deep down i have always felt "adopted" and not belonging to this family. Even as a child. That might very well be the reason why i was never be able to "bond" with them. Because i may have had a different family to begin with. Who knows . . . What are your thoughts on this delicate matter? Asking my mother further questions is futile. And talking with the other family members is out of option. Here is a fun fact about her: She does not even remember tragic events happening. Because that is how she copes with such happenings. There is a simple solution to figure out if you're adopted: In germany you have the law behind you, you have the right to know your biological parents, even sperm donors. Just ask the relevant authorities (no experience with that tho).

If you know who @William is pls give me a shout out! Please! Lol

I have a hard time with any kind of holiday, because I tend to be lazy and that pulls me really down. I feel that I'm just a better person when I have something to do. But I am christian and I do look forward to celebrating this particular birthday . Toward my family I have mixed feelings, so I'm looking forward to it, and at the same time I'm not. I'll prolly also spend more time on TWS and get to know some peeps here better, so I'm looking forward to that. @Shivashish-Sarkar & @lancealot For all those new ones, to be able to DM/PM with someone you have to either follow each other or go to your profile settings and allow everyone to DM/PM you.

@Danaliz-Cabello being dead

@AllAboutTalk Hey, when did you have this conversation with that person? I'm not sure if it's really you who I talked to but we were talking about fear of what is to come and more then we got disconnected. If it's you, I'll be glad to talk but if it's not you, I'm sorry about it.

@Bela-Hella hahhaa praying for you both

@DarkIce said in If You Were to Form a Family of TWS Users, Who Would be What and Why?: @Durwin Yo uncle Durwin...Count me in Of course Darkneice

@danid I'm a guy sigh

@Barton that's true.. they are your backbone when you can't stand anymore due to failures.

@MultiPersonality thanks! glad you agreed

@lovelysad would like to chat with you...dm me

@josh16 hi

Maybe instead of hating him just hate his actions maybe that’s what rly destroyed ur childhood

my feelings to your hard time i hope you get online again to see if what i say can help you Life is many many different things with random events good and bad we never know are coming but when ones such as yours do it is hard to cope and gain a control over your emotions but with that whats done is done not being rude just saying we cant go back in time so only today matters and how to make it a positive one with many more to follow is to in your mind feed yourself only good things positive thoughts and knowing of the goal you will achieve one day because your mind either conscience.sub or unconscience is were health and healing will be best utilized for your brain can do wonders if you work with stay positive if you have loved one your are worried about them being affected by your current situation know that they are not mad or think you have become a burdon to them not at all waht your seeing is their pain and self frusturation for not being able to help the one they love get to were they want to be you have to assure them not to be sad or frusturated and to keep positive thoughts of your goal and to take alllnegativity and do away with it because a collective set of positive minds work with one another for the law of attraction will seek out what you are telling it to if you listen or think badly or as the doctors sayy you may never walk again thats bull they dont you and western medicine is to prescribe and addictive drug that will mask the problem but keep you spending more time and money in a brutal evil market souly in it for profit now dont get me wrong their are doctors tjat are truly life savers and good people but many arent please dont take their advice without more opinion all in all know what you will do again one day and you will if you can keep the bad energy away because bad energy is a destroyer of all good things when you do this things will fall in order i really do and without a doubt you will dance again and looking back will make your ability to dance that much more enjoyable your just on a vacation and forgot your dance shoes we can say and you will be home soon! I look forward to better days for you and your family and friends and a side note i tell myself sometimes when i feel negativity creeping on me is it can always be worse someone somewere is in a very bad situation and its now me although i feel for that person im happy with my situation that just got better from the thought.......

@psycho_cute I’m just glad you’re ok and that nothing bad happened to you....I’m not mad or disappointed but relieved that it was just a lie and nothing serious to be panicking about. We’re here for you katt if you ever need. Be it wanting someone to vent to or talk to about problems(and I know I’m being a hypocrite saying these things as I never really discuss when I get problems in my life but still) we’re here if ever needed.. I hope this worrying event never has to repeat not only for your cause and safety but a lot of the people’s worries they have for you. We care katt if you’re ok or not. Personally glad to have you back and see that you’re ok and whatever troubles go through your life I hope you’ll go to someone for help

@bela If the situation demands that you don’t be honest, think of the consequences of your dishonesty. Though we may loss for being honest, always listen what your heart say. Your brain is a egocentric where as your heart say to be a human which differentiate one from an animal.

@martybadger For the fact i gave one example, not to point fingers but to use as an example. The point of the question was to see what people thought, and sir I take your comments on board. You are right that every situation is different, but since you missed the point of the thread, I am interested to know what your thoughts are on a generalised basis of the topic. I don't know where you live or come from but this is something that in the UK is very apparent that many people do. And yes it is down to them as to how they bring up their children. Of course it is. So, do you have a general idea concerning this topic? In regards of minding my own, I'm a thinker and if I see something that promotes a chain of thought, I tend to go with it.... That's how I was brought up, and thanks to places like this I can pose questions to other's based on observation in order to gain opinion. Hope to hear back from you cause I am genuinely interested.

@what-is-this that sounds nice I’m glad you have a good family

Hi everyone. I am glad that you guys responded to my post. To clear some points out, I have been doing this to my sister because I want to reward her for he achievements. It somewhat a psychology thing; positive reinforcement (rewards) strengthens good behavior while negative reinforcement (punishments) weakens it. In this way, I can make her focus on gaining more achievements and doing the best that she can to achieve a goal. This strategy actually helped her to be more goal-oriented than she was before. However, it had resulted to an unwanted behavior. She has somehow see me as her reward machine or probably her wish factory. Due to this, I have decided to heed your advice that I should I can still pamper her for her achievements but still have to control her desire for expensive things since I want to grow up knowing there thing that she has to work for herself. Anyway, thank you so much.

I am generally punctual and get to work or appointments exactly on time. Never too early and never too late. I do sleep through my alarm clock though - sometimes twice.

@willdavis potato P.S. I didn't read anything you said but If the foreign man is trustworthy let the son date him and do whatever he wants with him as long as it's most likely safe

@janem98 Try to open your heart to your parents, especially your dad. Parents always worry (too much sometimes) about their kids and no matter how old you get they always see you as their little baby girl. I don't know the kind of relationship and education you've had and grown with but the tighter it was the harder you will have to pull to set you free. This might be the push you need to show them how much you need them to set you free. A pure pation like that is rare nowadays, show them that you are responsible and how much that means to you. In the end, all they want is to see you happy and safe so if you touch their heart they will know what's right!

@captain_america said in OMFG!!!!!! FINALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!: @sup we've already had two they were twins so ask Abby. I think I will believe you.

@indoubtbf you must consider their opinions. Asian people are very family-oriented and they are very devoted to their families.

@sadbf789 I think that if you two are both grown and have a good promising relationship despite the families opinions, and your girlfriend loves you enough to stay that it shouldn't matter whether or not the mother dislikes you. If it doesn't work out because of her than you would have to move on and find you a simple women with a simple family

@fuck-tws-lel said in Tell me what will you choose and why???: @obviouslylucifer stfu lmao kys bitch