@someone216 yeah i get it, i understand how hard it is to break up and how bad you would feel, but please, make no mistake, first time that you feel like somebody else might be better person for you, thats the signal you should always take, no exceptions. And i will repeat myself sorry, but, if you break up now it will be a lot easier than looking back to this moment 2 years from now and wandering what life would be like if you had broken up while it was not too late. Trust me, i myself had a relationship that i didnt want to end because of feeling the grief, but you are doing him more damage by staying with him while you dont really, truly want that, than to leave him straight. I know its hard, but its for the best. Thats my advice, hope you get your feelings sorted out.
Help me help me help meeee
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My boyfriend seems to be bored with me. What should I do? Looking for a new boyfriend or trying to be fun so he doesnt get bored?
If I have to find a new boyfriend, how to get a new boyfriend while I'm shy and can't make a conversation? -
I'll help you out. I guess
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Fellow me back
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@Neomoooon kay
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@Under_Bar you shouldn't have to change who you are for someone, that isn't a long term strategy. He should like you for who you are. I would suggest talking to him about your concerns
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@Under_Bar @Scottish IS RIGHT
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@Scottish i try before but yeah nothing happened
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@Under_Bar than tell ur bf and meet new peps
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@H-A-C hahaha i cant leave him easily
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@Under_Bar Sell your Boyfriend on Olx and find a new Boyfriend
(Olx is a site where you sell old used stuff)
Lol😀
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@Under_Bar what did he say? Did he confirm your feelings or reassure you? Is it reality or maybe you are worrying over nothing? You're not boring, you're a cool girl. Maybe you should mow him down on your scooter 😊😁
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Hey there! I gotta agreed with @Scottish except the mow him down part haha.. anyway, I think you guys really need to be transparent and talk about it. I mean talk about both of your feelings and problems and try find a solution to it. If he is not willing to work it out together with you, you might really should give up.. but even after that, I don't think you need to rush to find a bf so soon. Just take time to upgrade and reflect on yourself. Then when the right time comes, there you go!
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@Under_Bar lmaoo i'll help you
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he really said that he wasn't sure about his feelings for me. he didn't talk about it further when I asked.
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@Under_Bar Try talking with him about the kind of relationship he wants with you. Look for any signs showing that he will try to work it out with you. For now, take no stress. These kind of situations can be turning points in a relation.
I'm in consent with @Scottish and @Belle123 Get him to discuss the matter with you.
If you feel like talking about it further after that discussion with you BF, reach out any of the people here you trust. I'm sure all will be very much willing to help you have a happy and satisfying relationship. ^_^ -
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@Under_Bar i guess it boils down to what you are willing to accept. There is nothing wronf with having high standards for yourself. It doesn't mean you're selfish, just that you have self respect
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@Scottish i still dont know what to do
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@Under_Bar well what does your heart tell you R? (Don't wanna say your name publicly) i hesitate to say anything but what i do know is you are worthy of a man who wants you for who you are. Don't settle for less, you'll be doing yourself no favours
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be single, wild and free, that's much more better than the effort you are going to waste.