@Daisy-Margnet
There is a reason why I don’t interact directly with the users on live chat anymore, take this topic for an example, no matter how we act or interact, people like you will always find something to whine about and support it with trolling and spamming.
You can keep posting shit, accuse us mods/other users or even file complaints against us, it will have no impact at all unless you start behaving yourself. If you expect us to do something, make sure you stop being a contradictory person first.
I may be “quiet” and interact less but that doesn’t mean I’m not aware of anything or you people as a person, it’s the complete opposite. I’m still present and yes it is truly amazing, as we did interact lots of times before but you didn’t appreciate it because of the “unfair” treatment.
Do try to make up with your fellow users as it seems to be a more personal issue:)

@Bab she is one of the most annoying kids here who trolls, clones and spams which makes this topic completely irrelevant, very contradictory person.

@TM I'm not even going to dignify those questions with a response. For someone who claims to have a purity-oriented mindset, you seem pathologically obsessed with my sexual life, which is far less varied than you credit it to be. I wouldn't be surprised if your fascination with dicks (prosthetic and otherwise) reflected your actual inclinations.

First of all, people don't stop noticing attractive people just because they're in a relationship. That's perfectly natural and has nothing to do with your looks or your partner's ability to remain faithful. However, one thing is to steal a glance at a passerby, another is to gawk or give them a lingering stare, which makes everyone involved uncomfortable. You've already brought up the subject, and he's made no effort to accommodate your request. Are you willing to tolerate this behavior in order to preserve a relationship where you feel disrespected, or will you break the cycle? Nobody can make that choice for you.

1. New Zealand (partly because of the stunning scenery, partly because I'm a huge Tolkien nerd)

2. Turkey (I want to visit both Istanbul and Capadoccia)

3. The Scottish Highlands

Bonus destinations: Kyoto, Morocco, Iceland

My takeaway is that you're pursuing a long-term relationship with someone who's not ready to commit due to deep-seated mental issues. Are you emotionally equipped and willing to take this arrangement for what it is rather than what you want it to be? Everything that you've mentioned till now seems to be indicative that you aren't. Keep in mind that there's no quick fix, and the situation isn't going to change overnight (if it ever does), so you can either adjust your expectations or leave while you still are on good terms.

She informed me of a guy that he manager at her job is trying to hook her up with and she told me she wasn't interested but because of the no official " label" of her and I she tells the dude she isn't interested in dating him. But the guy is persistent and keeps showing up to her work and texting her and because we aren't really official but she basically treats my like a significant other Im in a position where I don't really have any say over the whole thing.

Your ladyfriend's acquaintance refuses to leave her alone even though she's manifestly turned him down (saying you're not interested should be enough for someone to back off, mind you, no need to make clear you already "belong to" another guy). This is not a call for you to step in like a knight armed with jealousy. She should reach out to HR or get the authorities involved.