@TM I'm not even going to dignify those questions with a response. For someone who claims to have a purity-oriented mindset, you seem pathologically obsessed with my sexual life, which is far less varied than you credit it to be. I wouldn't be surprised if your fascination with dicks (prosthetic and otherwise) reflected your actual inclinations.

First of all, people don't stop noticing attractive people just because they're in a relationship. That's perfectly natural and has nothing to do with your looks or your partner's ability to remain faithful. However, one thing is to steal a glance at a passerby, another is to gawk or give them a lingering stare, which makes everyone involved uncomfortable. You've already brought up the subject, and he's made no effort to accommodate your request. Are you willing to tolerate this behavior in order to preserve a relationship where you feel disrespected, or will you break the cycle? Nobody can make that choice for you.

Leave Germany

1. New Zealand (partly because of the stunning scenery, partly because I'm a huge Tolkien nerd)

2. Turkey (I want to visit both Istanbul and Capadoccia)

3. The Scottish Highlands

Bonus destinations: Kyoto, Morocco, Iceland

My takeaway is that you're pursuing a long-term relationship with someone who's not ready to commit due to deep-seated mental issues. Are you emotionally equipped and willing to take this arrangement for what it is rather than what you want it to be? Everything that you've mentioned till now seems to be indicative that you aren't. Keep in mind that there's no quick fix, and the situation isn't going to change overnight (if it ever does), so you can either adjust your expectations or leave while you still are on good terms.

She informed me of a guy that he manager at her job is trying to hook her up with and she told me she wasn't interested but because of the no official " label" of her and I she tells the dude she isn't interested in dating him. But the guy is persistent and keeps showing up to her work and texting her and because we aren't really official but she basically treats my like a significant other Im in a position where I don't really have any say over the whole thing.

Your ladyfriend's acquaintance refuses to leave her alone even though she's manifestly turned him down (saying you're not interested should be enough for someone to back off, mind you, no need to make clear you already "belong to" another guy). This is not a call for you to step in like a knight armed with jealousy. She should reach out to HR or get the authorities involved.

@TM I guess this is my fault for allowing myself to get caught in a semantic argument. The word 'natural' has several field-specific meanings, none of which are pertinent to this context. If you decide to switch the standard definition for one of your own preference ('according to, or preserving the earliest structure of an object', instead of 'happening in nature, as opposed to man-made'), you must make it known beforehand, in order to prevent equivocation. Besides, by picking that particular meaning, you've managed to categorize mutations and the entirety of human evolution as 'unnatural', which perhaps wasn't the effect you intended.

Dick is for the pussy like key and lock but noooo you want dicks to enter where the shit goes out ! You want the pussies to rub eachother ! You want to kill reproduction

As for that, sex (or genital rubbing, as you would describe it) has other purposes than reproduction, including but not limited to building intimacy, finding pleasure or stress relief, or exerting dominance. You are well within your rights to believe that our (only) purpose in life is to continue the human lineage, but that's incredibly reductive, and, dare I say it, fucking sad.

@TM Kindly walk me through your thought process, as I can't imagine what led you to such conclusion (I'm definitely not reading an entire wiki article on the subject).