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What I seek too is a woman whom I can confide in fully. Someone who really really cares and would never expose any of my secrets.

But I don't seek for the perfect woman. I'm quite happy with a womanly woman, deeply emotional in all ways. Someone who keeps surprising me, sometimes disappointing, sometimes pleasent.

And someone who is willing to choose not a hollywood's fantasy type of love, for love truly shines the brightest, when it is given in sacrifice. Someone who realizes that choosing another person for life is not all flowers and butterflys, but a cross to carry for the other's sake.

Not just that of course, because how fullfilling is it, to lie beside someone who truly has become a part of you, in front of whom you are allowed to be yourself, not having to hide anyething? I'm looking for a woman, about whom I can say: she is my home on this earth, And I know full well, that such a connection only works in two ways. I also want to be someone, become someone, she can call her home.

I believe it is better to keep secrets

@JessicaLou can you follow me back so I can pm you?

It's like I always say to my ten kids, 'In the game of petty, chattering middle class sibling rivalry, you WIN or you DIE', and then I make them fight in the desert ala James T Kirk fighting The Gorn, complete with music, and whoever stands victorious will inherit my design consultancy business.

hi@steelfirehawk

@steelfirehawk said in Mutualism Schism:

@petrapark3r np

alright here it is, sorry for taking a day longer.

Jesus said He wouldnt bring peace but the sword. mother against daughter, etc. when your father drags you down, you have to go, and not help him continue to do wrong. you need to take up your cross and follow jesus, on the uncomfortable road that leads to heaven.

yes, many profets and the disciples were called to give up all their worldly goods and follow jesus in this way. but this is not for everybody. only those who are called directly by the Lord to proclaim His word in this way. Actually, if He had called you you would not have nothing. People would be giving you things all the time, and exactly in the right moment. Heavenly providence is real, and I've seen exactly this happen countless time to somone who is actually called.

But if you are not called to this kind of life, then things like this won't happen to you. And then for you taking up your cross means working and providing for your family. And if you do that you'll see another kind of providence. You'll also see that He takes care of you through the work of your hands and thus helps you, your family and those with whom you share to live a good life.

@steelfirehawk down, down, down the hole to dig deep and bold.. The stones lie in our bones, Brother. So down, down the hole we go. With sword, pick and spade we turn the Deep Dark into our Home. Far away from the burning Morning Star, lies a sight no Man nor Elf will ever behold...curve of arch frozen in Alibaster stone, water-tumbled steps lead to Vulcan's Forge...still beating after a century 's score. Here the heartbeat redoubles, strike of hammer, ring of iron, we work in our Mother's arms....the Art of our forefathers more than match the surface tribes who squabble for for the crude works in iron our children grow their teeth upon.

that area was made for WITHDRAWLS ONLY. not deposits!

@blahblahblaaaah true. But, Blahblah....if you never try AND accept the "no".....how can you even say you tried? The "try" is your own self limit. "I" know, being 40 and abused by many. Yet,I am happier than I was 5 years ago. No, I have no male/female to cuddle with, yes...I have friends and I welcome enemies too!