@rip80sa1 No doubt. We have this saying here: It's only fun until someone gets hurt. That's generally applied to kids, by moms, but it crosses over smoothly into adulthood

@blahblahblaaaah true. But, Blahblah....if you never try AND accept the "no".....how can you even say you tried? The "try" is your own self limit. "I" know, being 40 and abused by many. Yet,I am happier than I was 5 years ago. No, I have no male/female to cuddle with, yes...I have friends and I welcome enemies too!