Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Do you think universe conspires two souls to be together? :)
-
@cjko said in Do you think universe conspires two souls to be together? :):
I wonder what's your take about this.. hahha
NO
FFS
Snap out of it romantics -.-
-
It does makes sense and that's a very interesting way to put things, It also reminds me of a book called "The secret" that talks about the energy that you generate by thinking positive, if you think and desire positiveness the universe will send it your way as positiveness atracts positiveness. :joy:
-
@Kana haha sounds jaded about love. haha :D
Why say no? -
@Mr-H said in Do you think universe conspires two souls to be together? :):
"Every Jack has his Jill "
i spent my childhood believing jack and jill are brother and sister
π€π€π€
-
@Mr-H that's great then.. I recommend you a book about a psychology of hope or psychosynthesis. The book entitled "What may we be" by Piero Ferruci is a good read and it has exercises on it..
-
@cjko said in Do you think universe conspires two souls to be together? :):
@Kana haha sounds jaded about love. haha :D
Why say no?Leaving aside love, i know that
UNIVERSE DGAF!!!
-
@Kana said in Do you think universe conspires two souls to be together? :):
@Mr-H said in Do you think universe conspires two souls to be together? :):
"Every Jack has his Jill "
i spent my childhood believing jack and jill are brother and sister
π€π€π€
Ruining ppl's childhood since 1990 :angel:
Thanks for the recomendation! :blush:
-
@Kana haha well, it's your choice. You chose to think that way :)
Maybe you haven't experienced ''luck'' yet. :D -
@Mr-H Jack and Jill story got a various version. It's kinda twisted in children's story book to make it sounds unromantic or child friendly story ..
-
Uhhh, I know that, there's even nursery rhymes regarding Jack and Jill, but the expression I used it's a known english proverb and that's why I used it :joy:
-
@Mr-H Ops! I see.. thanks for that. :)
-
@cjko ,πππ
-
Sounds like some new age woo woo
-
@Barton what does it mean? haha
-
@_Shuaib really , that's nice
-
Retarded topic 2.0 ... (Sigh)
NO it doesn't conspire anything.
Universe doesn't care, It just expands xD -
@Styles_ if that's what you believed, then fine.
Thanks for sharing your ideas btw, and if this topic may seem retarded for you that is not my problem anymore :) -
@cjko It's alright (:
-
@cjko Yes and no. I think some souls are meant to be together, I think everyone has a soulmate and I think everyone meets and/or talks to them at least some point in their life; but I don't think those soulmates always end up together. In fact I think most people end up with another love or alone. This is why it's common to hear about "the one that got away". People make mistakes, cheat, etc, and they end up loosing that soulmate without even realizing that they were the one. Fate can only go so far when we have free will.
-
@Zen00 what if the one that got away wasn't the soulmate? I mean you never know xD