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I think if you have control over your mind, you can persevere through most hard things.

like having good impulse control over addictive behaviors (constant social media usage for example) is the start. Then you slowly become self aware of addictive thoughts (social judgement for example) then you start controlling that.

Now, the only way it seems to actually CONTROL (misleading word) is to actually just stop doing it. Then you keep doing NOT doing it then it becomes a lifestyle. Then your brain will be hardwired to be self sufficient and truly independent --> you become a superhuman?

if you get there, you can then actually do long term gratification things rather than bunch of small nothings.

So, to sum up,
you identify addictive behaviors
you identify addictive thoughts stemming from the behavior
you detach/let go/stop doing whatever it is
you get used to not doing these very very fun and bad stuff for long enough
you are more able to persevere through long term projects in life (however, relapse is possible)

its not that you control anything, its that you aren't controlled by anything
= enlightenment

@Darkkk that's sad

@cjko OKAY

@Wolfie_11 haha nope. It's wrong

You can't be prepared for everything, which doesn't mean you shouldn't get prepared at all, that's my motto about traveling.

@Mazel-gacha-gachaverse hmm nice

@INFINITY hahah pretty cool :)

not my case

i guess so

@reviewer_1 haha have some moquito repellent lotion then hahha

Hopeless

after 10 years of marriage -" i hate the day i've met you". "i kill you and bury you in the garden"

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@Ansi yeah .. point made here.

Yeah. I've experienced this and ik that feeling 🙂

@DHRUV-CHADSANIA-GANDO because I'm having a cough that time, ninja mode activated.LOL

@cjko The birds and the bees replace them.

@cjko rancher style so no stairs, heated floors, gym, open concept around 2400 square feet(not greedy) on a large private treed yard made for entertaining

@CocaCola great then :)

@Aexis-Tenax u would indeed be the student vasting in the knowledge ur master would be sharing with u I wasn’t referring to you as master just forget the comma it was a question as in anything else, master referring to me using myself in the third person don’t let the missing comma go to ur head 😉

@Lurker yeah you are right about the gifts.. it's always the thought that counts. That thing you did with your ex was sooo cute <3

@alkal33 looks delicious!

@cjko Yep it is :)

Mine, was when I met my first crush😁

@cjko no, because they may be lying that they lied, mindfuckery right there.

@cjko hey girl

@DIV I just did! :)