@steelfirehawk I see.. well, you can't please everyone and you can't change what is happening in the human kind.

@Deimat I'm not into that kind of game

@血液-酔っ well, that's true. What can you do then so they can hear your voice?

@Five haha why not unpack it immediately?

I would prefer very much not to be "remembered". I found out that to be remembered can be heavy. It's harder to live up to the standards of those who died, than to those of them still alive. One can almost always ask forgiveness of living people. How does one do? I made a promess and since the woman I made it to died, I've no other choice but to follow it: no "chance to explain why I could not keep it". So the bar stays as high as it could ever get.

sorry meant to say I have a crush on one of my best friends

@Wolfie_11 said in How long do our loved ones stay around after they pass over? Do they visit at once and briefly before moving on for good,or do they take many years to get used their new homes before they are ready to see us again?: @cjko Well ironically, I’m an Atheist. I have nothing against that. I said I have grown up among such people and watched various rituals being performed. Doesn’t really mean that I believe in them. What are rituals to them is a story in a visual form for me. If I like it, I keep it in my archives. Afterall, there’s nothing bad in taking cues and views of other people. Isn’t that what we do here as well? I agree.. we came from diverse cultures and different upbringing. We differ in a lot of things, we don't believe in the same values and beliefs yet we can still connect because we respect each users here.

@cjko Only time by ENYA

@Marcomarco and what makes you think you're alive and breathing? Lol

@Zen00 said in How do you know if she's/he's the one? : @cjko You know or you don;t until it's to late

@cjko yes

@spacegirl haha weird. Sounds like you're in different realm. It's nice to know that there are people who post their ideas on your topics even if it's already burried ancient times ago.

@Kiss_My_Axe haha lilifishy

@travelingguy thanks

@cjko You’re truly welcome! Oh yes nice pick.

@cjko

@Master-Wolff said in What is better than falling inlove? : Full submitting ur self to another Depends on "the other", and on reciprocity

@DarkIce69 I appreciate this.. thanks

@pe7erpark3r Your personality is based on your life's experience. A stranger becomes someone, after he finishes the path.

@D1Vne No u

@E-Gene wow.. why think so?

@cjko "Just met you" or "Don't know you"

@Vanessa-Snow said in Why wait til marriage ?: @Zen00 Living in America, it is hard to see marriage this way. People get married and divorced so much that is almost the equivalent to dating Not sure if i should laugh or cry at how accurate this is. Do both!

@cjko thx

@alkal33 haha I see

@SAUDADE-2-0 true.. I agree

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@ObviouslyLucifer I’d marry a vacuum cleaner if i could