I would prefer very much not to be "remembered".
I found out that to be remembered can be heavy.
It's harder to live up to the standards of those who died, than to those of them still alive. One can almost always ask forgiveness of living people.
How does one do? I made a promess and since the woman I made it to died, I've no other choice but to follow it: no "chance to explain why I could not keep it". So the bar stays as high as it could ever get.
I said I have grown up among such people and watched various rituals being performed. Doesn’t really mean that I believe in them. What are rituals to them is a story in a visual form for me. If I like it, I keep it in my archives. Afterall, there’s nothing bad in taking cues and views of other people. Isn’t that what we do here as well?
I agree.. we came from diverse cultures and different upbringing. We differ in a lot of things, we don't believe in the same values and beliefs yet we can still connect because we respect each users here.