@Lurker

The looks is what we usually see 1st so I find it hard to be with someone i'm not attracted too

we need to be honest about this. im all for dating a guy for his brain and not his looks but lets be honest, if i dont like what im looking at, hes not even gonna get to look at the dimple up close.
(at the same time, he may look exactly like what i like but if he cant hold a conversation, looks wont save him)
the thing is, everyone has a different taste (thank goodness) so the whole beauty question has many levels.
honestly, i feel that people who feel ugly use this against the world to try and prove a point, and also to make others feel bad.
maybe this is a touchy feeling for me but im all good, i like brains over looks, but i agree with my buddy here, if im not attracted to them, physically, i guess we stick to friends, which is almost better.

@brokenmind You love him, but you deserve someone who loves YOU. Just you. He is not confused, he's just trying to get both of you, show him whos boss and ditch his sorry a s s. In all seriousness i understand how this may hurt but ask yourself one simple question:
Dont you deserve more?
(you do.)

@Indrid-Cold ooooooh, who would i pick? Murdock, because he was just so out there hahah.
(also, i wonder if the people who answer this post will all be 80's babies... )

@Lurker ah! smart.

@IM-NOT-H***Y this is what gets the girls (and i mean, the great girls), a guy with confidence goes a long way.

@cjko what should i answer if im already "smart but not too beautiful"? Cause i dont wanna trade. Brains over looks, always.

@Indrid-Cold "Angst, good times and honest opinion" ... for a second i thought you were just describing great s e x.

@cjko

@Indrid-Cold @Karina-Kara my favorite thing about this post is how we all have different views and still managed to talk between us, without imposing and/or offending.

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