The looks is what we usually see 1st so I find it hard to be with someone i'm not attracted too
we need to be honest about this. im all for dating a guy for his brain and not his looks but lets be honest, if i dont like what im looking at, hes not even gonna get to look at the dimple up close.
(at the same time, he may look exactly like what i like but if he cant hold a conversation, looks wont save him)
the thing is, everyone has a different taste (thank goodness) so the whole beauty question has many levels.
honestly, i feel that people who feel ugly use this against the world to try and prove a point, and also to make others feel bad.
maybe this is a touchy feeling for me but im all good, i like brains over looks, but i agree with my buddy here, if im not attracted to them, physically, i guess we stick to friends, which is almost better.