good question. What would be the one most important thing, above all others? Humm. I hate lies. But i would choose someone who accepted my past to understand how i vibe and work, not to hurt me with it. So, that. Someone safe.

We met over a week ago and i just wanted to thank you, we had an hysterical conversation, with lots in common, you kept calling me miss judgmental and i laugh about it till today. Should use that as my new handle.
Even though we never connected outside of here, you were, like you said "literally equipped with all the tools to charm me.", and it was true.
So i just wanted to thank you, for making me know that i can have it all, someone who makes me laugh, someone who fills both my wants and needs, physical and emotionally.
Wish you all the best.

• to everyone else reading, God damn, who knew a site like this could offer such a lesson.
  Keeping me humble, always, Mr Nick. Thanks.

@ODIN when i leave.

@Karina-Kara oooooh yes. Favorite music is hard, how do i choose, favorite of lately, favorite of ever? decisions decisions...

the happy

the introvert

the heart

the breathing

the beginning

the after life

@cjko falling in pizza.

@Lurker a Mountie is a cop, with a cool uniform who rides a horse. In Canada. I think they're pretty cool.

@cjko this could be two different topics, people have forgotten (or have not been properly educated) on what marriage is because there are few true marriages going on. Many people being against religion doesn't help either (although you can get married anywhere), and its become something hollow. Its not about performance in front of God, or a big party, or just something that costs a lot of money. You know when you first fall in love? You're all bubbly and you wanna tell eeeeeveryone about that person? Yeah, marriage is that. And when you make a decision, you tell your friends so they help you keep accountable. You just wanna get all your friends and favorite people in the same place and scream "I choose this crazy human to go on adventures with!", you share it because its awesome to share your favorite things with the people you love. As for "waiting" for it, im guessing its about s e x. My answer would be yes. One, because we have spoiled men. We give them what they want before they're committed and then wonder why they lose interest. Humm.
The thing i've learned (and it's not free of pain) is, IF you wait, you tend to weed out the boys/men who will eventually leave you down the line.
It takes a shit load of self control but for me, I would give my pinky (and i have such an adorable pinky toe) to meet a guy who would write letters and wants to "wait" until we get closer. Because waiting, used to be a regular thing. Waiting used to be a part of it, the waiting made the journey super cool, you were invested in the person and the leading up to it.
Marriages now fail (imo) because we jump into relationships too fast and we fall in love with potential, not giving people enough time to reveal their true selves.
Mostly, if you wait, the guy who waits for you is probably gonna be a million times better than any a*****e who just wanted to move fast.
(sorry for the long rant)

@cjko that would be so much more convenient than the blindfold!!

@cjko

@Shane-Watson wishful thinking, then. I am definitely the mud, not the flower. I help beautiful things grow.

@cjko Absolutely! It would be fantastic, to be honest.

@Karina-Kara hit me in the feels

@CoCoP0p this is hilarious

@cjko oh yes they do. Ive learned to enjoy them as they come and go.

(you changed your avatar, i was used to the yellow )

@Karina-Kara some are like f****** meteorites, and basically wipe out everything.

@Karina-Kara He made such an impact, too.
I was invited for a birthday party at a club, reluctantly i agreed, because the twins were my friends. It was as expected, crowded, and we were two groups of friends.
The memorable part of that night was standing near a table when LP comes on, i sighted and said "Ugh i really want to dislike this band but..."
"They're really good." said a voice right behind me.
I didnt turn immediately, i just nodded and sighed again.
"Exactly."

We spent the rest of the night talking, so close to each other that there were bets to see if we were leaving together.
We, however, were oblivious to this and were just engrossed in discussing the lyrics of many bands.

This is how i met my best friend. We were(are) from very different backgrounds and LP spoke to both of us. And on that night, brought us together, and we would have never met otherwise.

Its a shame that we lost such an amazing artist.

@Karina-Kara Linkin Park got me through some serious crap.

@Bela-Hella i could tell you... but then i would have to kill you.

@Bela-Hella and also (just because)

@reviewer_1 the ultimate best thing about "old person" is not giving a f u c k about stuff youre not passionate about.
"Vanessa, why dont you come over more often?"
"I dont want to."
"..."

When youre young, its rude, when youre older, its acceptable.
Magic.
F****** magic.

And yes, i understand and accept that this may sound like im a jerk.
I know im not.