Best posts made by Vanessa Snow

good question. What would be the one most important thing, above all others? Humm. I hate lies. But i would choose someone who accepted my past to understand how i vibe and work, not to hurt me with it. So, that. Someone safe. :D

We met over a week ago and i just wanted to thank you, we had an hysterical conversation, with lots in common, you kept calling me miss judgmental and i laugh about it till today. Should use that as my new handle. :laughing:
Even though we never connected outside of here, you were, like you said "literally equipped with all the tools to charm me.", and it was true.
So i just wanted to thank you, for making me know that i can have it all, someone who makes me laugh, someone who fills both my wants and needs, physical and emotionally.
Wish you all the best. :*

• to everyone else reading, God damn, who knew a site like this could offer such a lesson.
  Keeping me humble, always, Mr Nick. Thanks.

@ODIN when i leave. :smirk:

@Karina-Kara oooooh yes. Favorite music is hard, how do i choose, favorite of lately, favorite of ever? decisions decisions...

the happy

the introvert

the heart

the breathing

the beginning

the after life

@cjko falling in pizza. <3

@Lurker a Mountie is a cop, with a cool uniform who rides a horse. In Canada. <3 I think they're pretty cool.

@cjko this could be two different topics, people have forgotten (or have not been properly educated) on what marriage is because there are few true marriages going on. Many people being against religion doesn't help either (although you can get married anywhere), and its become something hollow. Its not about performance in front of God, or a big party, or just something that costs a lot of money. You know when you first fall in love? You're all bubbly and you wanna tell eeeeeveryone about that person? Yeah, marriage is that. And when you make a decision, you tell your friends so they help you keep accountable. You just wanna get all your friends and favorite people in the same place and scream "I choose this crazy human to go on adventures with!", you share it because its awesome to share your favorite things with the people you love. <3 As for "waiting" for it, im guessing its about s e x. My answer would be yes. One, because we have spoiled men. We give them what they want before they're committed and then wonder why they lose interest. Humm.
The thing i've learned (and it's not free of pain) is, IF you wait, you tend to weed out the boys/men who will eventually leave you down the line.
It takes a shit load of self control but for me, I would give my pinky (and i have such an adorable pinky toe) to meet a guy who would write letters and wants to "wait" until we get closer. Because waiting, used to be a regular thing. Waiting used to be a part of it, the waiting made the journey super cool, you were invested in the person and the leading up to it.
Marriages now fail (imo) because we jump into relationships too fast and we fall in love with potential, not giving people enough time to reveal their true selves.
Mostly, if you wait, the guy who waits for you is probably gonna be a million times better than any a*****e who just wanted to move fast. ;)
(sorry for the long rant)

@cjko that would be so much more convenient than the blindfold!! :laughing:

@cjko

@Shane-Watson wishful thinking, then. I am definitely the mud, not the flower. I help beautiful things grow. :v: :laughing:

Finished Godless and it was amazing.
Im watching The Duel now because Netflix assures me im gonna like it.
But you, my trusty Strangers, what would you suggest i watch later, in the (recent) Western category?
(yes, i've watched all Clint Eastwood <3 <3 )

@ODIN Frozen hockey player?! So, i'd just be standing, in the cold. looking cool?
Sure, i'll take it. (i wanted to be a Mountie though, watched way too much Due South lah laah laaaah) <3

@cjko oh yes they do. Ive learned to enjoy them as they come and go.

(you changed your avatar, i was used to the yellow <3 )

@King-Kadak level up! :+1:

@Lurker yes. There are mounted policemen in many countries but Canadians are called Mounties (kinda like a short name for mounted ;) ) Its like, all Fords are cars bout not all cars are Fords. Our local police also has mounted officers and they have a specific name, but not mountie.

@wojta crime by negligence.

@Itiel much appreciated. :) from what i can see (from my happily married friends), the key is to do things together, like friends do. (s e x is a bonus, but sharing interests and actually doing other things together as friends seems to be what makes it last)

@ODIN Pizza. :drooling_face: Its great warm, with the melted cheese. Its great when its going cold, when you can properly taste everything. Its great for breakfast, its basically bread therefor qualifies as such. Pizza is my Mr Perfect. Hummm... i want pizza.

@cjko <3 Im midway through reading again Hit by a Farm. Its so funny.
But im eager to start The Love Song of Miss Queenie Hennessy <3 <3 <3

@IM-NOT-H***Y you genius. (also, laughing my a s s off here, i thought you were a girl) :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: <3