People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime

[cjko]

@Lurker said in People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime:

@cjko said in People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime:

@Lurker said in People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime:

@cjko

sadly no and I don't think I will.
I don't think a friend will ever go that far for another friend. Don't get me wrong, i'm not saying a friend isn't a strong and an important bound, but we all have our lives, at some point we will have to leave to do our own thing, whiles a lover is bound to share their lives with us!

I see.. yeah, you're right. All we have to do is let the people who want to walk away from us gracefully. This is saddening to hear, friends who you used to talk everyday before suddenly turned into someone who doesn't remember you anymore. It's equivalent to heartbreak. Agree?

It hurts a lot more when it's a lover that does that, if it's a friend I kinda understand cuz we all have our own life and sometimes it gets too busy to check in as much as we want to!

Hmm.. you talk from experience. Yeah, true. Are you still hurting?

[Lurker]

@cjko said in People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime:

@Lurker said in People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime:

@cjko said in People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime:

@Lurker said in People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime:

@cjko

sadly no and I don't think I will.
I don't think a friend will ever go that far for another friend. Don't get me wrong, i'm not saying a friend isn't a strong and an important bound, but we all have our lives, at some point we will have to leave to do our own thing, whiles a lover is bound to share their lives with us!

I see.. yeah, you're right. All we have to do is let the people who want to walk away from us gracefully. This is saddening to hear, friends who you used to talk everyday before suddenly turned into someone who doesn't remember you anymore. It's equivalent to heartbreak. Agree?

It hurts a lot more when it's a lover that does that, if it's a friend I kinda understand cuz we all have our own life and sometimes it gets too busy to check in as much as we want to!

Hmm.. you talk from experience. Yeah, true. Are you still hurting?

Nope and I hope I never again have too, but I'm in an adventure that can end pretty ugly for myself

[cjko]

@Lurker adventure huh. You mean, you play games with anyone?

[Lurker]

@cjko

hahahaha, not exacly, I said it in a topic before but i'll say it again.
It's about a trip that I know of the destination, it will be a painful one and im not looking forward for that but the route to get there is full of sweet and exciting things, so there's no way I would not take this journey.

[cjko]

@Lurker said in People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime:

@cjko

hahahaha, not exacly, I said it in a topic before but i'll say it again.
It's about a trip that I know of the destination, it will be a painful one and im not looking forward for that but the route to get there is full of sweet and exciting things, so there's no way I would not take this journey.

I seee.. good luck! Haha
May you reach that destination without pain at the end.

[Claudia Pilulina]

I really often perceive ppl as teachers. Someone teaches how good to be/to do, someone - how not. Recently I got situation when a guy behaved like me (I mean react too emotionally). So it's more important for me that ppl come for a reason.

[cjko]

@Claudia-Pilulina said in People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime:

I really often perceive ppl as teachers. Someone teaches how good to be/to do, someone - how not. Recently I got situation when a guy behaved like me (I mean react too emotionally). So it's more important for me that ppl come for a reason.

Well, we learn from everyone. We are unique individuals with different experiences, if shared, you will be amazed how people varies. Each person who came into your life, may he/she break your soul or make it.. it always has a reason. We are like books in the library, we have different covers and contents. Some books are too shallow some are too deep.. some are forgotten. Haha
We have different chapters in life, we have titles and labels.

[travelingguy]

Completely agree

[cjko]

@travelingguy thanks