If you stop looking for a relationship, life will literally throw one in your face. But there's like a ton of places you can meet people gym, running club, work, zoo. Don't be afraid to go places yourself, smile at people and you'll be surprised at how many react. I met my first girlfriend in McDonald's, I was ordering food and she complimented my accent. (I have a thick Irish accent)
Reasons why relationships fail:
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@hwasabi23 said in Reasons why relationships fail::
- Not enough trust
- building the relationship on a bad foundation
- bad communication
- putting too many expectations on the other person
- not being ready
aaaww. These reasons were all good. :)
It hit me real hard. HAHA thank you for this :) -
Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature xD
But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
So imho relationships are made to be broken.
Do tell me what you think about it ~ -
@kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::
Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature (because i am)
But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
So imho relationships are made to be broken.
Do tell me what you think about it ~I see where your coming from with comments. I came to an epiphany years ago where I came to very similar opinions.
The thing is though, it is nice to think that there is such a thing as true love and that it is out there for all of us somewhere. The way society is changing more & more I have begun to think that it's not out there for everyone.... but I still hope, since hope is what breads perseverance and perseverance leads to success.
Ho Lee Chit
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@kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::
Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature (because i am)
But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
So imho relationships are made to be broken.
Do tell me what you think about it ~it's kinda weird, haha :D
but I admit you got a point there, well, that's your perspective. We do have our views that's beyond or didn't meet with other's view -
@kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::
Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature (because i am)
But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
So imho relationships are made to be broken.
Do tell me what you think about it ~But what u want to say on how u break relations with other people
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@kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::
Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature (because i am)
But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
So imho relationships are made to be broken.
Do tell me what you think about it ~I always believed that our bf/gf should be an upgraded version of our best friend. In order to love someone you 1st need to have some kind of bound with em. Lust or sexual attraction happens cuz of our nature, but I wanna believe there are more feelings behind it.
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@mr-h I feel you but why do you think like this?
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In retrospect, i would like to make a change in my statement xD.
Relationships can last when friendship is strong enough to more than compensate for the loss(if at all) in lust. That's a true commitment then.@Mr-Peanut Hi5 about the enlightenment xD
Imagining there's a true love out there for you is justified by the theory of probability xD
If by societal changes you mean decreased rate of commitment, it is just because people are realising that sex is the real need, not love. Otherwise society was always the same as it is now, regarding love. Some people don't find a love due to problems in themselves, or bad luck(not having met the right kind of person).Yep hope is a good thing. May people persevere to find their OTP xD.
@cjko lol the most basic of truths sound weird sometimes.
@Mr-H You're right. That special bound is true friendship. Real love can't be without friendship.
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Why relationships fail(a more mature answer in hindsight x'D)
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Because the two came together because of physical attraction. Lust will end.
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People get attracted and get in a relation but it's only time that reveals more about one person to the other. It might end up this way that they weren't really as compatible as they thought. Hence cheating or friction and relationship fails.
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Simple. "Familiarity breeds contempt."
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@ whoever down-voted me
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@kana you can thank me i upvoted you.
FIRST OF ALL, YOU SHOULD BE IN LOVE LATER ON. I JUST WANNA SAY YOU MAKE A GOOD POINT BUT AGAIN WE ARE NOT ANIMALS
Da differences between HOOMAN AND ANIMALS are da brain and common sense. Thats why da old people gave da old tradition about marriage, life, culture, behavior, education even religion. In animals, they dont have it.
So your logic is kinda nonsense for me and i am not sorry dude 😉 peace.Cc: @WtfJudith
honey, will ya share something about @Kana perception and comment that "Animals and Hooman are equal"? -
@kana you can thank me i upvoted you.
No thanks I don't care for upvotes.
FIRST OF ALL, YOU SHOULD BE IN LOVE LATER ON.
I don't know why you say i should be in love later. It's my life and love is not a complusion. I think I can decide for myself 😁
Da differences between HOOMAN AND ANIMALS are da brain and common sense. Thats why da old people gave da old tradition about marriage, life, culture, behavior, education even religion. In animals, they dont have it.
Also, if you read my post again you might realise that i never said humans are animals. I was pointing at what nature want's from us and what we are designed to do.
Btw good to know you know the difference between Humans and animals xD.
So your logic is kinda nonsense for me and i am not sorry dude 😉 peace.
Sure my logic may be nonsense to you. Can't please everyone, can we?
PS: learning to respect others' opinions might come in handy. Just saying :)
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@kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::
@g-a said in Reasons why relationships fail::
@kana you can thank me i upvoted you.
FIRST OF ALL, YOU SHOULD BE IN LOVE LATER ON. I JUST WANNA SAY YOU MAKE A GOOD POINT BUT AGAIN WE ARE NOT ANIMALS
Da differences between HOOMAN AND ANIMALS are da brain and common sense. Thats why da old people gave da old tradition about marriage, life, culture, behavior, education even religion. In animals, they dont have it.
So your logic is kinda nonsense for me and i am not sorry dude 😉 peace.Cc: @WtfJudith
honey, will ya share something about @Kana perception and comment that "Animals and Hooman are equal"?No thanks I don't care for upvotes. Thanks for showing up. That's a better aproach than downvoting.
Aww i am upfront person. 😉 i dont like it i will buff you and we should make an argue.
You are welcome, SIRE!I don't know why you say i should be in love later. It's my life and love is not a complusion. I think I can decide for myself 😁
Yea because we all need love like @Kat_15 said 😛
Also, if you read my post again you might realise that i never said humans are animals. I was pointing at what nature want's from us and what we are designed to do.
How about this statement
Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
So you assume that HOOMAN ARE EQUAL WITH ANIMALS? NAH MAN 😉
Btw good to know you know the difference between Humans and animals xD.
OF COURSE. We have a lot of differences. Animals is a lover while hooman are destructor.
Sure my logic may be nonsense to you. Can't please everyone, can we?
I dont want to feel please. I want to know your own "deepest thought" bro 😏
Again, thanks for manning up and replying xP
AWW YEA.
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aww ga, u upvoted kanas posts and balanced my downvotes, not fair. lol
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@tws-user everyone deserve to vote their own mind either you like it or dislike it. It is equal with you can downvote or upvote someone posts. 😛
Since i think @Kana has an interesting topic, i think an open debate is better than da downvote. You will know him more like he will know you more then you both will respect your own perception each other.
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@g-a i respect everyone regardless of their perceptions. :)
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@g-a lets agree to disagree bro! :)
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@kana nah, something that i am wondering the most from you, how can you respect other people or somebody outside there even stranger when you cant deal with their perception? :thinking_face:
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@tws-user IT IS MEH BALU WHOM I KNOW YEAAA 😏
