The best relationship advice i can give you is....DON'T GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS!!!!
Reasons why relationships fail:
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@cjko as a scientist i would say its because love is a chemical reaction and it will end sometime , its just a need to reproduce and it will fail 80% i hope i didnt just ruin somebody elses life dont worry you still have around 20% chance that your love chemical reaction will not stop duringy your lifetime :3
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@cjko 3.
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@cjko i am back btw.
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@cjko I don’t think there is one definitive reason to start anew life and death are just known parts f life...we know things start and we also know they end and we are all just trying to figure out the best way to get through whats inbetween those moments
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@cjko Relying on your partner for your happiness
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@murdagangshit omg. Well, you should accept her decision. She just came out of her shell and showed her true colors. :)
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@spaceboy said in Reasons why relationships fail::
@cjko As wiki says:
The hedgehog's dilemma, or sometimes the porcupine dilemma, is a metaphor about the challenges of human intimacy. It describes a situation in which a group of hedgehogs seek to move close to one another to share heat during cold weather. They must remain apart, however, as they cannot avoid hurting one another with their sharp spines. Though they all share the intention of a close reciprocal relationship, this may not occur, for reasons they cannot avoid.omg, I like this Hedgehog's dilemma. It explains why you got hurt sometimes.. It's just being part of the nature and part of being someone who does feel something. :) Thank you for this BTW
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@jessicagrant said in Reasons why relationships fail::
@cjko as a scientist i would say its because love is a chemical reaction and it will end sometime , its just a need to reproduce and it will fail 80% i hope i didnt just ruin somebody elses life dont worry you still have around 20% chance that your love chemical reaction will not stop duringy your lifetime :3
hahaha thank you for this.. well, if that's the case.. how are you going to explain those couple who stayed in love til death ? :)
Kill them with kindness :)
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@rendezvous 3 is kinda waste of time for me.. :D
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@nycspilot wow. yeah true.. you mean, this is the nature of loving.. you get hurt and love again.
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@giant-panda well, you can't blame that person who relies her happiness to that someone, because that someone is her source of happiness.
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@cjko but problem with this is that it may put too much pressure on your partner.
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@cjko i aleready mentioned the chemical reaction can stay for a lifetime , or just 1 day, it is random :3
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@giant-panda which is true
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@jessicagrant ok,, thank you
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- Not enough trust
- building the relationship on a bad foundation
- bad communication
- putting too many expectations on the other person
- not being ready
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@hwasabi23 said in Reasons why relationships fail::
- Not enough trust
- building the relationship on a bad foundation
- bad communication
- putting too many expectations on the other person
- not being ready
aaaww. These reasons were all good. :)
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Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature xD
But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
So imho relationships are made to be broken.
Do tell me what you think about it ~ -
@kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::
Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature (because i am)
But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
So imho relationships are made to be broken.
Do tell me what you think about it ~I see where your coming from with comments. I came to an epiphany years ago where I came to very similar opinions.
The thing is though, it is nice to think that there is such a thing as true love and that it is out there for all of us somewhere. The way society is changing more & more I have begun to think that it's not out there for everyone.... but I still hope, since hope is what breads perseverance and perseverance leads to success.
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@kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::
Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature (because i am)
But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
So imho relationships are made to be broken.
Do tell me what you think about it ~it's kinda weird, haha :D
but I admit you got a point there, well, that's your perspective. We do have our views that's beyond or didn't meet with other's view
