@AProblem In simple words, she manipulated you and used you. But I guess that's the harsh truth you have to live with. Please try to get used to it as fast as you can. The more you actually think about it, the worse it will make you feel. So just have that "Fuck it" attitude and let her live her own life. God knows what you did for her. She'll get karma for her actions; it's inevitable. Don't worry. I would personally suggest you try the spiritual way. Maybe visit a nearby church, mosque, temple, or anything you wish? Personally, when I feel low, I cook. I don't know why, but it helps me in mysterious ways :)), Wish you luck!!
Hi, I'm new. And I need some help or advice ...
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@NekoNat I'm in the same boat. I'm making sacrifices to help myself, certain music i won't play, films or sports i won't watch. Avoiding things we did together. It's helping. All i have are these little coping strategies and distraction, otherwise I'd be buried alive with grief. Please try and do what i am doing, it will save you short term and heal you long term. I've also been spending a lot of time on here, there are some brilliant, supportive people here. Message me if you like, i will reply as soon as I'm able. And remember you are worthwhile as an individual , you don't begin and end with him. Take care
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You don't have to forget your past you just have to overcome it, I did it with my friends by my side and music in my ears
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@Scottish Thank u...
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Im here if you ever need me all you need to do is message me, the pain never fully goes away but it'll be ok as long as you have someone to talk to