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.......I'm leaving TWS.........

Break Up

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thatsurgirl_.
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Thanks to you guys to people who supported me when I was down.To the people who would shine my day when its dark.I think who ever came up with the idea of TWS It helped me with my struggles Thx.If it wasn't for TWS I Would'nt be alive right know.But time has come.---Bye guys,have a good life ahead...
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DayShifter @thatsurgirl_.
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@thatsurgirl_ Never got to meet you .... but all the best on your future endeavours and I hope things work out for you.
Like you, at times of need I have found this a great place for the most unexpected support.
Bye
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BOOTS22 @thatsurgirl_.
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@thatsurgirl_ oof dont go
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GirlNextDoor
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stayyyyyy
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Edi again
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You could move to dicord :)))
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Unknown4123 Music Lovers @thatsurgirl_.
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@thatsurgirl_ hey no, please dont, i am back only now
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Did i do the right thing? i have long relationship we've been together for 7 years and 5 month we broke up last December 2024, I beg for him to stay because we already plan that on 2025 we will get married I felt his changes on November 2024 but i didn't bother at all but i always told him that i should not be the guy in a relationship he never effort or give flower even valentine but i dont bother, but end of nomveber he became cold and i can really feel that there is something wrong so i decided to break up with him and he accepted it i was shocked because every time i broke up with him he will say that he will fix the things that i dont like, but for some reason he just accepted what i said so i talked to him he's giving me too much excuses that he said that he is not worthy of my love that he cant give me a proper funds and i told him that i didnt even ask for those things for him and and beg for 1 month to him to not do this and comeback to me i even kneel in front of him but he didnt bother at all and one day he told me that he have a new girl which is i dont understand at all because the new girl have husband and a kid already, so i told him did you cheat on me and he said say, and i told him why didnt you tell me from the start? and i know the girl also they are working in a same company, the girl is giving a funds to him, and i keep quite for 1 month but the anxiety and overthinking i have is really bad and i did what i should not have done, i message the husband and ask him if they are separated with her wife the husband said they are not and the new girl is fucked up and my ex is furious of what i did and i just responded "If she fucked up my relationship her relationship should be fucked up also" did i do the right thing? but i dont feel bad at all im actually relive for what i did. I am evil for what i did?

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@FelixTheRogue hey hi, I just read, don't worry he will come back to you. If he genuinely love he will. Soon or later he will realise regret for dumping you, leaving you without any reason ik how does it feels.. it might be a hard time for him. We don't know what is he going through ,hope he need a break and come back..... The reason behind leaving you could be something that he could say properly or directly. When he realises it na then watch he will die talking to you..... Ik bcz I didn't the same thing with my love and I miss her now regretting... Dw stay strong...

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Anmouse._.

I've been wanting to genuinely rant about this for a minute.

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I never thought to look for breakup forums before. I'm surely glad they exist because I need to let everything I've been bottling up out.

I'll summarize now and add more context later. I'm tired and just need to type.

I'm just, so decimated. I was with him for almost 3 years. I've never met another guy so crazily similar to me like this before. And the magnetic energy was there from the first time we met. We loved each other and started building up a life together. Our downfall was him not trying to take care of his mental health, causing sudden and irrational arguments that seemed to come out of absolutely nowhere. This started making my own mental health deteriorate which led to more explosive fights. I tried everything I could on my part to fix the issues between us. I found therapists for us both together and individually, I tried putting myself in his shoes to understand what I was doing to cause him to react how he did, I listened to what he told me he needed from me and worked hard to give him that, etc...

Finally after so many months of us trying to better ourselves and keep each other accountable and on track and after laying out a gameplan of the steps we need to take to start getting better together, things exploded. The day after we started taking those steps. Me asking him if he really still wants this or if we should step back and be friends and him assuring me he wanted it. I gave him an easy out a few different times and told him I wouldn't be upset if he just gave me honesty about what he wanted. I got my hopes up thinking we could get back to a good place. He said he'd call me the next morning and wanted to play Fortnite with me the next evening. He just....ghosted me. No explanation, no fight, no goodbye of any kind - he was just....gone. After nearly 3 years.

If we had just broken up, I think I could handle it. What's destroying me is the not knowing. Running through scenario after scenario trying to figure out what went wrong. It's been two weeks of sleepless nights, ruminating. Crying every day when I'm alone. Damn. Damn..

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DorianHavilliard

all the love stay strong

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MisterStrange

Just think of your mom, how ll she feel when she came to know about your sadness, just make urself busy and try to be happy not for yourself but for her

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devilmoon

@Stranger1110111 move on,i mean i know its hard but you have to eventually. Do positive activities such as listening to music or studying or cooking or whatever you like,basically keep yourself busy and happy.Don't let a breakup break you from inside

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Cold Sun

50,000 push-ups

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I am doing many wrongs things to overcome it..what should i do

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@Sophie-7 Stay strong️

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@Sophie-7 I understand dear...take care...may her soul RIP...stay strong she wont be happy to see you depressed....so be happy always for her soul

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@Sophie-7 May God bless and comfort you during this time of grief. I offer you my thoughts, prayers, and well wishes during your dark times of life.

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Haven't felt so depressed in a very long time. Probably since my mom passed. The hurt is so intense it's hard to manage.

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@AProblem In simple words, she manipulated you and used you. But I guess that's the harsh truth you have to live with. Please try to get used to it as fast as you can. The more you actually think about it, the worse it will make you feel. So just have that "Fuck it" attitude and let her live her own life. God knows what you did for her. She'll get karma for her actions; it's inevitable. Don't worry. I would personally suggest you try the spiritual way. Maybe visit a nearby church, mosque, temple, or anything you wish? Personally, when I feel low, I cook. I don't know why, but it helps me in mysterious ways :)), Wish you luck!!

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chua

hi. i too got broken up with a week back. we had a rough time but he said we can make it work and we were getting better until he came and broke up with me. it hurts very bad, so bad u just want to stop breathing and i know that feeling. i thought the breakup didn't have a big effect on me but the pain and hurt is kicking in now when i see him go out with our friends and be happy, smile and pretend like nothings wrong. i hate it and i hate that i feel this way. but i guess we can only heal if we get over this feeling. i hope you are better since its been 3 months since your breakup. best wishes.

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You got used and manipulated . The only thing you can do is forget her this process takes time ... go do your hobbies and start praying . Don't go to another relationship the next 2-3 years it's healing time .

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If you haven't yet sent her to Jupiter please forgive yourself for letting her hurt you and forgive her for hurting you.

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Hey, Ahhmm honestly speaking.. I don't really have the best advice to give. But the moment I saw the word "struggling" I just kinda click on it. Never been in a relationship so never know what advice to give to you but been struggling in life so.. The only thing I could say I guess is that. Whatever your feeling right now, it's all valid. It's ok to cry, to feel the pain it cause you. But the moment you stop crying, pick up yourself. Do not give someone the satisfaction of seeing you like that. To continue to live the life you were used to might be difficult at the moment, but hold on to the important things or people that you still have. For every storm will pass by. Your life will get back to the way it used to be. Not now but hold on and someday it will...

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Try pranic healing and twin hearts meditation pls

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monkey123123123

Let him cook meth worked once will work again!

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monkey123123123

Ey bossman, life goes on you can't control it!

Find someone else and move on, things happen for a reason, might be difficult at first but it goes away with time, don't waste your life re-living the past. You need to make room for the future and yourself, put yourself first and under as little pressure as possible, life gets better we all go through tough times trust me! If she left you then she isn't meant for you, you will heal with time and meet someone better that's gonna stay with you for life!

Love you man hope you're doing well !

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I’m reaching the end of my rope, I wager. I had a fiancé, we were together for 8 years. I spent the majority of my 20s supporting her while she got her degree, then through her anxiety, self harm, fights with family etc. I put all my energy into it.
Finally, we moved to her dream town, and her career got off the ground. The moment she was living in her dream flat, and working her dream job, she lost interest in me entirely. After a couple of months, she said that she had lost her feelings towards me and that she was breaking our engagement.

I was relegated to sleeping in the office until I could afford to rent a place for myself.

I now have moved out and have been for a few weeks, it’s been a few months since the breakup happened and I am living alone for the first time in 8 years, sleeping alone, coming home from work to an empty flat, I’m now 31 and feel like I have less focus on my life than I ever have before. I don’t know anyone in the area, and I have made the effort to go out and make friends locally, I have even been on a few dates. My job is going well, I am able to pull it together enough to perform well and as far as anyone at work is concerned I am my normal cheerful self. While I have been successful in a few aspects of my life since the breakup, it all feels so hollow.
I feel used and tossed aside.
I made an account on here in the hope that someone might understand, or resonate with what I’m saying. Maybe some kind words, something.

If I don’t reply straight away I’m most likely at work.

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@Cold-Sun jsjsjjs i got your sarcasm, I guess. This reminds me of when you're looking for a job and get hired immediately, the "you start tomorrow" is so damn painful jajajajajjajaakk

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In my law ( society ) and from a religious pov , you should not leave him but rather go to your family house and be there until he understands the responsibility he should take plus u should not pay money from ur work to support the family but only if he pay first .

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hey Emma. 38 m. wanna chat?

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