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Relationship advice please
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I'm a girl so am asking regarding my boyfriend, happy to take Male points of view also.
How do you feel about your boyfriend following half naked girls on instagram? and liking only their 'sexy' photos.
How would you feel about your boyfriend paying for someone's pictures through Only Fans?
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Hmm. What he did was actually offending, to you and ur relationship. If he is intentionally searching for these pics and liking them and stuff then its bad. And paying for only fans just worsens it. But lemme ask you something. Did u talk about this with him? Did u ever before set boundaries?
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@dexy102 hi
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@Cybernatic yes. since the start of our relationship i've told him that him following and liking these accounts and pictures on instagram makes me feel so insecure and uncomfortable but he didn't see the big deal and just brushes it under the rug.
only fans has come up in conversation a couple times recently and so i told him that i find it disrespectful when you're in a relationship etc. and told him that i want him to be aware of how i feel about it and my boundaries in case he even thinks to use it in the future.
He knows exactly how i feel about all of it, but he doesn't agree so whenever i bring it up he thinks i'm overreacting and being ridiculous.
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@dexy102 hmm. If you have already talked with him and he still refuses to take the matter seriously then I am afraid nothing much can be done other than making him realize what he is doing is hella disrespectful. Ask him if he would still feel the same way if u started doing what he is doing. Now I am not saying that u actually start doing that and all but just make him realize what he is doing is wrong and its hurting ur relationship. If he still doesn't stop then well realize that its time to move on. Best of luck to u
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@Cybernatic Thank you for your advice. I've mentioned that before, i've said things like "imagine how you'd feel if i liked all these pictures of half naked men and followed these accounts etc. etc." and he said he wouldn't care. He doesn't see a problem with it, which is why he doesn't understand why i feel the way i do. I don't know how to make him see it and i'm afraid that he never will. I'm tired of putting up with it
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@dexy102 then better go with the last option. Its better than putting yourself in agony for the rest of your life
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@Cybernatic u made me teary somehow y r u so gooooood at these relationships thing:+1: :disappointed_relieved: :dizzy_face: :face_without_mouth: :flushed: :laughing: :loudly_crying_face: :neutral_face:
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@Shobhit-Mishra hey lmao
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@simron-persaud haha thx Sim ig😊😋
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i don't know why it's a problem to follow and like half naked females or even paying for pictures.
how would you feel instead if he went liking half naked men pictures? would you feel better cause it's not a female?
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just dump him lol.. uve been in long time and yet he still dont care ur feeling. maybe only want u for easy access to sex
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@Cybernatic np IG :v:
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@kitt finally something we can agree on
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@dexy102 hunny you have to put your hands to good use and slap that Boi silly and with the other hand dial domino’s and order a pizza and USE HIS WALLET TO PAY
“Put your hands on his cash and spend it to the last dime for all the hard times” -
@ֆɦǟʏȶɦǟȶɮǟɛ ouch shag. U r a relationship expert lmfao😂😜
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@SexyWitKnowable
Wtf I'm so sorry your having to deal with this
I'm in a very similar situation and I'm completely torn between
lea ving and staying -
Guys are the worst...hate to say this, but are you satisfying his needs?
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@Justinandwhitney-White are you replying to me or the owner of the topic? because i am confused.