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  • RE: Boyfriend checking girls out constantly

    @TM I'm not even going to dignify those questions with a response. For someone who claims to have a purity-oriented mindset, you seem pathologically obsessed with my sexual life, which is far less varied than you credit it to be. I wouldn't be surprised if your fascination with dicks (prosthetic and otherwise) reflected your actual inclinations.

    posted in Questions & Answers from Strangers
  • RE: Boyfriend checking girls out constantly

    First of all, people don't stop noticing attractive people just because they're in a relationship. That's perfectly natural and has nothing to do with your looks or your partner's ability to remain faithful. However, one thing is to steal a glance at a passerby, another is to gawk or give them a lingering stare, which makes everyone involved uncomfortable. You've already brought up the subject, and he's made no effort to accommodate your request. Are you willing to tolerate this behavior in order to preserve a relationship where you feel disrespected, or will you break the cycle? Nobody can make that choice for you.

    posted in Questions & Answers from Strangers
  • RE: IF MONEY WERE NOT A CONSIDERATION , WHAT WOULD BE YOUR TOP THREE TRAVEL DESTINATIONS
    1. New Zealand (partly because of the stunning scenery, partly because I'm a huge Tolkien nerd)

    1. Turkey (I want to visit both Istanbul and Capadoccia)

    1. The Scottish Highlands

    Bonus destinations: Kyoto, Morocco, Iceland

    posted in Travel
  • RE: Help please, relationship advice

    My takeaway is that you're pursuing a long-term relationship with someone who's not ready to commit due to deep-seated mental issues. Are you emotionally equipped and willing to take this arrangement for what it is rather than what you want it to be? Everything that you've mentioned till now seems to be indicative that you aren't. Keep in mind that there's no quick fix, and the situation isn't going to change overnight (if it ever does), so you can either adjust your expectations or leave while you still are on good terms.

    She informed me of a guy that he manager at her job is trying to hook her up with and she told me she wasn't interested but because of the no official " label" of her and I she tells the dude she isn't interested in dating him. But the guy is persistent and keeps showing up to her work and texting her and because we aren't really official but she basically treats my like a significant other Im in a position where I don't really have any say over the whole thing.

    Your ladyfriend's acquaintance refuses to leave her alone even though she's manifestly turned him down (saying you're not interested should be enough for someone to back off, mind you, no need to make clear you already "belong to" another guy). This is not a call for you to step in like a knight armed with jealousy. She should reach out to HR or get the authorities involved.

    posted in Relationships
  • RE: Make Anonymity Back Again?

    It's extremely easy to remain anonymous under a username and picture that won't be associated with your offline identity. You don't need the advantages that come with not being subject to a registration process, and that prevent us (moderators) from carrying out our job efficiently. Don't want to face the backlash that might come with expressing unpopular opinions? Use a throwaway account.

    We may eventually become desensitized to violent & graphic contents, sadism, attacks and hate speech when they get too common. This may make many people more resilient in real life.

    How is that a good idea? A resilient person isn't one who cannot feel or respond normally to negative stimuli but one who can take enormous amounts of pain and bounce back seamlessly. You don't build resilient individuals by turning them into cold-hearted apathetic beasts, you do so by giving them the tools they need to heal.

    posted in Polls - Surveys - Votes