I'm a girl so am asking regarding my boyfriend, happy to take Male points of view also.
How do you feel about your boyfriend following half naked girls on instagram? and liking only their 'sexy' photos.
How would you feel about your boyfriend paying for someone's pictures through Only Fans?
Thank you both. I know that’s what I need to do. I just know he’s not going to take it well and I’m scared because I love him
@Cybernatic yes. since the start of our relationship i've told him that him following and liking these accounts and pictures on instagram makes me feel so insecure and uncomfortable but he didn't see the big deal and just brushes it under the rug.
only fans has come up in conversation a couple times recently and so i told him that i find it disrespectful when you're in a relationship etc. and told him that i want him to be aware of how i feel about it and my boundaries in case he even thinks to use it in the future.
He knows exactly how i feel about all of it, but he doesn't agree so whenever i bring it up he thinks i'm overreacting and being ridiculous.
@Cybernatic Thank you for your advice. I've mentioned that before, i've said things like "imagine how you'd feel if i liked all these pictures of half naked men and followed these accounts etc. etc." and he said he wouldn't care. He doesn't see a problem with it, which is why he doesn't understand why i feel the way i do. I don't know how to make him see it and i'm afraid that he never will. I'm tired of putting up with it
@Cybernatic yes. since the start of our relationship i've told him that him following and liking these accounts and pictures on instagram makes me feel so insecure and uncomfortable but he didn't see the big deal and just brushes it under the rug.
only fans has come up in conversation a couple times recently and so i told him that i find it disrespectful when you're in a relationship etc. and told him that i want him to be aware of how i feel about it and my boundaries in case he even thinks to use it in the future.
He knows exactly how i feel about all of it, but he doesn't agree so whenever i bring it up he thinks i'm overreacting and being ridiculous.
I'm a girl so am asking regarding my boyfriend, happy to take Male points of view also.
How do you feel about your boyfriend following half naked girls on instagram? and liking only their 'sexy' photos.
How would you feel about your boyfriend paying for someone's pictures through Only Fans?
Thank you both. I know that’s what I need to do. I just know he’s not going to take it well and I’m scared because I love him