It is yet too early to get any clear view of the future. Don't worry about it too much. For now just talk about your pain, as you are doing now.
That really is a horrible choice of date for telling you. Have you got anybody supporting you, like your mother/father? You must feel so alone right now.
@ondry
Regarding your friend, to be honest... if they thought you were joking, then maybe they are not the friend you thought.....
or maybe they needed to be told that this wasn't a joke and its how you really feel.
If I may ask, have there been any life tradigys ?
I mean like family members passing on? or have you been cheated on by an ex recently?
Regardless of not knowing why you feel the way you do, there is always a route to the problem. It's never good exploring what this maybe, but the is always a cause.
@yellowpopcorn
I've been overweight myself, all my life in fact. It really hit me when I got up in the scale and I saw 3 digits. I was weighting over 110 kg so I though i had to do something and after 5 years here I am. I weight 69 ish kg and I'm somewhat fit...
The best and quickest way to lose weight is exercising and learning how to eat healthy. A nutritionist might be advised to help you draw your food plan. Most gyms nowadays offer that for free (at least in my country).
I believe that if.you prove those ppl that you can get in shape, not only you will feel better about yourself they will also stop picking on you... hopefully! Hope I was of any help
@godessofpain also these feelings arent hurting anyone thankfully. The only person theyre hurting is myself, its tearing my head up its that level of i have no idea what to do
Just say, if you want to ask me out, you need to get my fathers permission first. If he does and your family approves, all that is left is for you, is to like him. If not, just say you don't, and block him.
