@Ash005 said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook not trying is worse than failure. I believe @Cybernatic has given a really nice suggestion .
Hmm.. maybe I'll wait till Feb, say maybe till Valentine... if I cant move on and still harbour those feelings, I'll approach him.. Though I dont think I'll ask him out, I'll try doing what @Cybernatic advised.
So there's this guy who used to like me since high school days but was always a bit shy and awkward to talk to me... I didn't think of him in that way during those days... idk 7-8 years later the tables are turned. I can't stop thinking about him and I feel too nervous and awkward to talk to him.
Its not that I want to date him.. i know it wont work out.. yet, i cant stop thinking about him.. I dont know what to do?
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Don_ said
I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .
A mere attraction, got over it haha
I envy you.
You let your feelings get in the way :)
I take it you still haven't talked about it to him and you haven't moved on either
I never really acknowledged them so maybe it was easy for me.
You on the other hand have known the otherperson for a lot longer than in my case. Hope you decide soon :)
Hmm.. yeah I have decided.. I'm going to move on.. wish me good luck.
Who is it? I have a crush on someone too
Cuz strangers aint gonna judge you and even if they do, you dont have anything to lose.
@Don_ said
Get another crush 😂
Awesome story
I think having a crush is very exhausting 😔
@Don_ said
I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.
Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .
It depends what you think you want from him - a relationship, a hook-up, friendship?
This is interesting. I dont know yet. Gotta think about it.
Its not that I want to date him.. i know it wont work out.. yet, i cant stop thinking about him.. I dont know what to do?
Care to share why it won't work out? Maybe it could? If not then like others said it is best to just try and move on. I know the heart tends to want what it cant have :(
Its just a gut feeling. Anyways I have decided. Im going to move on. Wish me luck.
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Don_ said
I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .
A mere attraction, got over it haha
I envy you.
I don't like people in general I feel. Specially the ones who thinks they are always right.
To the person for whom this post is dedicated, I wrote this confession one night after the 2nd school reunion this year. I really thought you might have moved on and I did not just had the guts and even if you hadn't, I still did not thought I could make you happy or I deserved you at all.
Now all I want is you to be happy wherever you are, whoever you are with. ❤
@Ash005 said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Cyberdyne vro? Not u? Whose suggestion it was then ?
😅 Ok this is funny!
@Sassy said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
But do you think I deserve him? I literally turned him down and ignored his confessions more than once in the past. I even dated other guys in front him.
I know you said you were going to move on but I just saw this. Yes you deserve him. The past is the past. We make a lot of stupid decisions when we were younger and tbh I have been in the same situation as you. I get why you want to just move on as to not ruin the wonderful feelings and ideas you have now. Who knows maybe your paths will come together in the future :)
Good luck to you!
Thank you ❤❤. Really appreciate it.
@Ash005 said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook not trying is worse than failure. I believe @Cybernatic has given a really nice suggestion .
Hmm.. maybe I'll wait till Feb, say maybe till Valentine... if I cant move on and still harbour those feelings, I'll approach him.. Though I dont think I'll ask him out, I'll try doing what @Cybernatic advised.
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Don_ said
I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .
A mere attraction, got over it haha
I envy you.
You let your feelings get in the way :)
I take it you still haven't talked about it to him and you haven't moved on either
I never really acknowledged them so maybe it was easy for me.
You on the other hand have known the otherperson for a lot longer than in my case. Hope you decide soon :)
Hmm.. yeah I have decided.. I'm going to move on.. wish me good luck.
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Don_ said
I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .
A mere attraction, got over it haha
I envy you.
@Cybernatic said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook I would like to know what changed bout him dat made you fall for him when in the past you didnt feel anything towards him(I feel like you crave the attention dat he gave to you as you have mentioned he confessed multiple times tho I could be wrong).
Edited:
I am not sure tbh.. Maybe its just infatuation.. When we talked last year around Aug, we talked about our old school memories and out of curiosity I asked him why did he even liked me back then (cuz we barely ever talked in school) and when did he actually started liking me? I always thought it was 8th grade cuz thats when the rumors started coming to my ears bout him.. But he told me it was actually 2nd grade.. He started liking me since we were in 2nd grade.. He told me the reason too and it was something quite silly... I expected the reason'd be something special but bleh.. But i think from that time, just the idea that someone could like me for so long.. just the idea that someone could like me despite my flaws made me started to look at him differently when the truth is i dont even known if he even knows any of my flaws nor I know if he even still like me in that way...
I think i'm in love with that idea of love.. that idea of something beautiful that could happen between us... So yeah I'll take your advice and I'm not gonna ask him out.. I think i'll just move on or maybe just keep crushung on him from afar.. I dont want that idea of something beautiful to become something ugly... idk am I making any sense?
@Saanjh said:
Well just let him know how you feel about him. If i were you i would do that. Don't think too much. All the best
But do you think I deserve him? I literally turned him down and ignored his confessions more than once in the past. I even dated other guys in front him.