Why wait til marriage ?



  • @Zen00 true. haha



  • @cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    I think, you value more the physical connection than the emotional, psychological and spiritual. I observed most men are like that..

    That comment clearly shows you don't know much about me 😂



  • @Lurker well, best of luck! thanks for sharing your thoughts btw


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    @cjko I come from a pretty orthodox-y part of the society, and I think a marriage isn't just about the couple alone, it's the union of two families, so it sure is a big deal in life and relationships, altho the opinion may vary and the decision of the couple is the priority even if there are objections to it.

    Just my two cents.
    Cheers~!



  • @Kakashi said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @cjko I come from a pretty orthodox-y part of the society, and I think a marriage isn't just about the couple alone, it's the union of two families, so it sure is a big deal in life and relationships, altho the opinion may vary and the decision of the couple is the priority even if there are objections to it.

    Just my two cents.
    Cheers~!

    Yeah, I think culture has an impact as well



  • @Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @cjko @Zen00 @Lurker @Barton

    Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends

    I knew this 😂

    So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul

    Living in America, it is hard to see marriage this way. People get married and divorced so much that is almost the equivalent to dating 😭

    that's why, you have to know who you are dating with and don't decide right away even if it feels right.. you have to know what is right not what is feeling right.



  • @cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @cjko @Zen00 @Lurker @Barton

    Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends

    I knew this 😂

    So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul

    Living in America, it is hard to see marriage this way. People get married and divorced so much that is almost the equivalent to dating 😭

    that's why, you have to know who you are dating with and don't decide right away even if it feels right.. you have to know what is right not what is feeling right.

    Yes! This can be very difficult, but I believe it is worth it in the end



  • @cjko we all die alone. The question is if you are living alone.



  • @Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @cjko @Zen00 @Lurker @Barton

    Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends

    I knew this 😂

    So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul

    Living in America, it is hard to see marriage this way. People get married and divorced so much that is almost the equivalent to dating 😭

    that's why, you have to know who you are dating with and don't decide right away even if it feels right.. you have to know what is right not what is feeling right.

    Yes! This can be very difficult, but I believe it is worth it in the end

    what is worth it in the end you mean?



  • @Barton hmm ofc you are living with "living things" that counts not alone for me.



  • @cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @cjko @Zen00 @Lurker @Barton

    Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends

    I knew this 😂

    So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul

    Living in America, it is hard to see marriage this way. People get married and divorced so much that is almost the equivalent to dating 😭

    that's why, you have to know who you are dating with and don't decide right away even if it feels right.. you have to know what is right not what is feeling right.

    Yes! This can be very difficult, but I believe it is worth it in the end

    what is worth it in the end you mean?

    Finding the right person



  • @Zen00 hmm well, yeah you're right.. but the world is covered with bunch of fake people. haha


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    @cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @cjko @Zen00 @Lurker @Barton
    well.....Nice topic
    I wanna give my thoughts on this, even i was thinking to create a topic like this....
    Well....
    Indians Prefer Arrange Marriage more....About 80% of peoples in India are Arranged Marriage..
    Not even Indians, Muslims do too, about 90% of muslims do only Arrange Marriage

    On the other hand, in areas like America,Europe,etc....99% of peoples, there do Love Marriages

    Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends

    So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul, And she is truly agreeing that u can now Make Physical touch(Sèx) with her, and Have kids & Family from her.....

    Sèx before Marriage is a huge sin......
    So, I think, Before making any physical contact with her, we should marry her.....
    But the problem is, we dont do😂😂, Humans likes to do sins..
    And there is a pleasure from making every sin😂😂
    We make Sins, We Do sèx😂😂, we always wants to fùck each other lol😂😂
    We should not do it, But We cant help ourselves but to do sins, we cant control ourselves?? 😂😂😂
    So, I stand with marriage 🙂

    I don't agree with arranged marriage.. but I support wait til marriage.

    Ohh ok.....And I Support both, Arrange Marriage & Wait till Marriage too.....

    Bcoz Ugly peoples have the right too to live, they have a right too to have a family...
    I think 25% of Europeana, Americans dont find their love, and died Single....
    In here , in India, even Ugly persons have life and family, About only 1% here die single...

    And same goes for muslims too, only 1% from all Muslims die single....



  • @Jimmy1708 I see.Thanks for sharing that



  • @cjko What do you think of it?



  • @cjko I agree. I think its because the culture today educate to be more open and open and because of that people forget about it



  • @Vanessa-Snow sometimes in life its a good idea to wait before you do something, i see it on myself in a few things. And special when it come to this important stuff, marriage, every person should thing what is more important for him, marking V on his gf or leaving the s*x in the side for a while and exploring new things.
    Great things you wrote btw.



  • @Vanessa-Snow Right about it, those are the things that make relationships stronghold.


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    @cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:

    @Jimmy1708 I see.Thanks for sharing that

    Youre Whalecum 🙂



  • @Itiel that's cool.. thanks



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