@Jumper-Cable-Guy I remember in my 4th grade, my friends and I loved playing rough games. There's one where you chase yourselves and the one touched on, turns to chase so you only played if you trusted your Sprint speed sth I was a pro at. Everything was moving well not until one of the homies went straight for my right leg instead of pulling my shirt or just slapping my back. I fell so hard and the impact left my forehead bleeding. Tying my best not to cry in front of the girls but everyone was just laughing and sum up the pain, I had to let it all out😭😭😭. The anger became too much to hold, I stood up swinging a blow and landed perfectly on the target leaving me so delighted that I stopped crying immediately. Now it was him weeping, and his was too loud that it caught attention of many teachers in the staffroom so our science teacher came rushing to scene. By the time he reached, I had disappeared and one stud snitched I was hiding in the toilet so he followed me there and whenever he called me out, I flashed🤣🤣🤣 I remember I made 13 successful flashes then after sometime, he left coz he was tired of my crap. Of course when he left, I also moved out sometime later but it was coming to end of classes but later, I learned he had told my mom about the fight so when I reached home, I don't remember much but the house shacked for some time with sounds of slaps, shoes hitting and saucepans falling and cain. Man, I almost spent a full night massaging my butt cheeks and swore never to sting people's children again.
Why wait til marriage ?
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@cjko I come from a pretty orthodox-y part of the society, and I think a marriage isn't just about the couple alone, it's the union of two families, so it sure is a big deal in life and relationships, altho the opinion may vary and the decision of the couple is the priority even if there are objections to it.
Just my two cents.
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@Kakashi said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@cjko I come from a pretty orthodox-y part of the society, and I think a marriage isn't just about the couple alone, it's the union of two families, so it sure is a big deal in life and relationships, altho the opinion may vary and the decision of the couple is the priority even if there are objections to it.
Just my two cents.
Cheers~!Yeah, I think culture has an impact as well
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@cjko @Zen00 @Lurker @Barton
well.....Nice topic
I wanna give my thoughts on this, even i was thinking to create a topic like this....
Well....
Indians Prefer Arrange Marriage more....About 80% of peoples in India are Arranged Marriage..
Not even Indians, Muslims do too, about 90% of muslims do only Arrange MarriageOn the other hand, in areas like America,Europe,etc....99% of peoples, there do Love Marriages
Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends
So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul, And she is truly agreeing that u can now Make Physical touch(Sèx) with her, and Have kids & Family from her.....
Sèx before Marriage is a huge sin......
So, I think, Before making any physical contact with her, we should marry her.....
But the problem is, we dont do😂😂, Humans likes to do sins..
And there is a pleasure from making every sin😂😂
We make Sins, We Do sèx😂😂, we always wants to fùck each other lol😂😂
We should not do it, But We cant help ourselves but to do sins, we cant control ourselves?? 😂😂😂
So, I stand with marriage :) -
@Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends
I knew this 😂
So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul
Living in America, it is hard to see marriage this way. People get married and divorced so much that is almost the equivalent to dating 😭
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@Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends
I knew this 😂
So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul
Living in America, it is hard to see marriage this way. People get married and divorced so much that is almost the equivalent to dating 😭
that's why, you have to know who you are dating with and don't decide right away even if it feels right.. you have to know what is right not what is feeling right.
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@cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends
I knew this 😂
So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul
Living in America, it is hard to see marriage this way. People get married and divorced so much that is almost the equivalent to dating 😭
that's why, you have to know who you are dating with and don't decide right away even if it feels right.. you have to know what is right not what is feeling right.
Yes! This can be very difficult, but I believe it is worth it in the end
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@cjko we all die alone. The question is if you are living alone.
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@Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends
I knew this 😂
So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul
Living in America, it is hard to see marriage this way. People get married and divorced so much that is almost the equivalent to dating 😭
that's why, you have to know who you are dating with and don't decide right away even if it feels right.. you have to know what is right not what is feeling right.
Yes! This can be very difficult, but I believe it is worth it in the end
what is worth it in the end you mean?
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@Barton hmm ofc you are living with "living things" that counts not alone for me.
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@cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@Zen00 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends
I knew this 😂
So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul
Living in America, it is hard to see marriage this way. People get married and divorced so much that is almost the equivalent to dating 😭
that's why, you have to know who you are dating with and don't decide right away even if it feels right.. you have to know what is right not what is feeling right.
Yes! This can be very difficult, but I believe it is worth it in the end
what is worth it in the end you mean?
Finding the right person
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@Zen00 hmm well, yeah you're right.. but the world is covered with bunch of fake people. haha
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@Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@cjko @Zen00 @Lurker @Barton
well.....Nice topic
I wanna give my thoughts on this, even i was thinking to create a topic like this....
Well....
Indians Prefer Arrange Marriage more....About 80% of peoples in India are Arranged Marriage..
Not even Indians, Muslims do too, about 90% of muslims do only Arrange MarriageOn the other hand, in areas like America,Europe,etc....99% of peoples, there do Love Marriages
Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends
So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul, And she is truly agreeing that u can now Make Physical touch(Sèx) with her, and Have kids & Family from her.....
Sèx before Marriage is a huge sin......
So, I think, Before making any physical contact with her, we should marry her.....
But the problem is, we dont do😂😂, Humans likes to do sins..
And there is a pleasure from making every sin😂😂
We make Sins, We Do sèx😂😂, we always wants to fùck each other lol😂😂
We should not do it, But We cant help ourselves but to do sins, we cant control ourselves?? 😂😂😂
So, I stand with marriage :)I don't agree with arranged marriage.. but I support wait til marriage.
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@cjko said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@Jimmy1708 said in Why wait til marriage ?:
@cjko @Zen00 @Lurker @Barton
well.....Nice topic
I wanna give my thoughts on this, even i was thinking to create a topic like this....
Well....
Indians Prefer Arrange Marriage more....About 80% of peoples in India are Arranged Marriage..
Not even Indians, Muslims do too, about 90% of muslims do only Arrange MarriageOn the other hand, in areas like America,Europe,etc....99% of peoples, there do Love Marriages
Lets compare this two, Compare the consequences between this two, Lets compare the statistics like......Rape, Divorces,etc... About areas....U dont know, But sadly America have higher divorce rates, Higer cheatings in relationship, Higher relationship issues, Higher rapes,etc..... Sorry my American friends
So now, why wait till Marriage??...Marriage is not just a little piece of paper, u dont know anything about Marriage, Marriage is a huge thing, its accepting the person in your Nikah(Marriage), in front of bunch of peoples(Peoples r mandatory), and like promising the Girl, that He will remain always with her No matter what in any situation, and take care of her. Accepting her in your Nikah(Marriage) So as her soul will be yours, You are taking a responsibility of her soul, And she is truly agreeing that u can now Make Physical touch(Sèx) with her, and Have kids & Family from her.....
Sèx before Marriage is a huge sin......
So, I think, Before making any physical contact with her, we should marry her.....
But the problem is, we dont do😂😂, Humans likes to do sins..
And there is a pleasure from making every sin😂😂
We make Sins, We Do sèx😂😂, we always wants to fùck each other lol😂😂
We should not do it, But We cant help ourselves but to do sins, we cant control ourselves?? 😂😂😂
So, I stand with marriage :)I don't agree with arranged marriage.. but I support wait til marriage.
Ohh ok.....And I Support both, Arrange Marriage & Wait till Marriage too.....
Bcoz Ugly peoples have the right too to live, they have a right too to have a family...
I think 25% of Europeana, Americans dont find their love, and died Single....
In here , in India, even Ugly persons have life and family, About only 1% here die single...And same goes for muslims too, only 1% from all Muslims die single....
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@Jimmy1708 I see.Thanks for sharing that
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@cjko for me waiting for marriage is good because when 2 people doing it not only the have connected with their body the also connect their souls together. So when you do after you marriage, after you swear to stay with your second half, then there is no problem do it.
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@Itiel that's cool.. thanks
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@cjko What do you think of it?
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@Itiel I agree. It's pretty rare nowadays.. I think 1/1000
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@cjko I agree. I think its because the culture today educate to be more open and open and because of that people forget about it
