What would you rather have and why

[cjko]

Long-Term Relationship
Short-Term Relationship..and why?

[DayShifter]

@cjko said in What would you rather have and why:

Long-Term Relationship
Short-Term Relationship..and why?

Long term security is never a bad thing

[cjko]

@mr_peanut true. But why do couples still break after a decade or more ? haha

[DayShifter]

@cjko said in What would you rather have and why:

@mr_peanut true. But why do couples still break after a decade or more ? haha

Because they don't hold true to the ways of the past....
Should:

1. Stay through think and thin, good and bad
2. Remain faithful
   3.Respect your partner as best you can

Should Not

1. Run at the first hurdle
2. Cheat or lie
3. Disrespect you partner or your family

Modern ways are fine ... but what do they lead to ???

1. More single parent children
2. More divorce

[cjko]

@mr_peanut this is threatening. hahaha :D
like you invested a lot of time, feelings and all.. then at the end of the day, viola! gone.

[DayShifter]

@cjko can me and old romantic, but that’s sort of what I mean .... these days give up to easy.
Regarding short term relationships these days , although you can get lots of ...um... gonna say ‘interesting memories’ you can also get a lot of other reminders of your time...
I prefer security to variety lol

[cjko]

@mr_peanut TRUE

[Lurker]

@cjko

Long term relationship all the way. It's true that:

@cjko said in What would you rather have and why:

like you invested a lot of time, feelings and all.. then at the end of the day, viola! gone.

But I rather invest the said time, feelings and much more in something that made me feel alive, then have an half assed excuse of a relationship. It's either do or die.

[cjko]

@mr-h hahaha true. Someone like you is rare. I mean someone who gamble for love no matter what is rare. :)
We should ALL know that investing everything to someone should be cherished and valued. Not to waste it..

[GianT PanDa]

@cjko Apart from having a physically longer life, a stable, long-term relationship also brings you fulfilment and happiness. It allows you to develop patience and a giving personality even if you don't inherently have these qualities.

Short term relationships can rub you really thin. Each one leaves you feeling less fulfilled than the last.

Quantitatively and qualitatively, long term relationships seem better for us than short term ones.

[Bela Hella]

@cjko All relationship short or long term needs attention..What comes easy won't last long and what lasts long won't come easy..Relationship depends on every person and situation..Thats all I Know I am not an expert hehe

[cjko]

@giant-panda I would definitely agree. But there are also Long-Term Relationship got wasted. Like it did give you the opposite feeling while you have it.hahha

[cjko]

@bela hmmm yeah.. true. So, are you telling us the fate vs. people who fight for it ? :)

[GianT PanDa]

@bela said in What would you rather have and why:

@cjko All relationship short or long term needs attention..What comes easy won't last long and what lasts long won't come easy..Relationship depends on every person and situation..Thats all I Know I am not an expert hehe

@Bela correct !!!Quality time, no matter how long or short span , spent together rejuvenates the ... Express it in your small ways, all the time. ... Trust and loyalty are glues that keep the relation ...

[GianT PanDa]

@cjko True love is rare. If you have found the SPECIAL PERSON then don't make him/ her your EX rather build a breath lasting relationship together......

[cjko]

@giant-panda true.. but sometimes, fate plays unfair. :)

[GianT PanDa]

@cjko You have no control over what the world does to you, over the various forces in the universe, but you have all the control over yourself. And the one who controls himself, effectively controls the universe.

[Bela Hella]

@cjko honestly dunno if there is fate and if there are still people who have faith in a relationship, but I Hope there are many..coz the word commitment is much deeper for me..

[cjko]

@bela yeah.. true that belle. :)
Hmm, that's a heavy word for us. :)

[cjko]

@giant-panda absolutely true. HAHAHA hey! are you experienced enough for this ? hehehe you are full of wisdom. :)