What would you rather have and why
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Long-Term Relationship
Short-Term Relationship..and why?
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@cjko honestly dunno if there is fate and if there are still people who have faith in a relationship, but I Hope there are many..coz the word commitment is much deeper for me..
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@cjko said in What would you rather have and why:
Long-Term Relationship
Short-Term Relationship..and why?Long term security is never a bad thing
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@cjko Apart from having a physically longer life, a stable, long-term relationship also brings you fulfilment and happiness. It allows you to develop patience and a giving personality even if you don't inherently have these qualities.
Short term relationships can rub you really thin. Each one leaves you feeling less fulfilled than the last.
Quantitatively and qualitatively, long term relationships seem better for us than short term ones.
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@cjko said in What would you rather have and why:
Long-Term Relationship
Short-Term Relationship..and why?Well, i would prefer a long term relationship. Love is something we all crave for. If I found somebody who understands me , makes me feel special, knows what's going on in my mind with just a glance at my face, and is really sweet, i would definitely not leave such a person even in the worst circumstances. Long term relationships gives us memories, which both of us would remember all our lives. It would make us smile in situations when we thought we would never smile again.
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@cjko said in What would you rather have and why:
@mr_peanut true. But why do couples still break after a decade or more ? haha
Because they don't hold true to the ways of the past....
Should:- Stay through think and thin, good and bad
- Remain faithful
3.Respect your partner as best you can
Should Not
- Run at the first hurdle
- Cheat or lie
- Disrespect you partner or your family
Modern ways are fine ... but what do they lead to ???
- More single parent children
- More divorce
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@cjko can me and old romantic, but that’s sort of what I mean .... these days give up to easy.
Regarding short term relationships these days , although you can get lots of ...um... gonna say ‘interesting memories’ you can also get a lot of other reminders of your time...
I prefer security to variety lol
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@cjko All relationship short or long term needs attention..What comes easy won't last long and what lasts long won't come easy..Relationship depends on every person and situation..Thats all I Know I am not an expert hehe
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@bela said in What would you rather have and why:
@cjko All relationship short or long term needs attention..What comes easy won't last long and what lasts long won't come easy..Relationship depends on every person and situation..Thats all I Know I am not an expert hehe
@Bela correct !!!Quality time, no matter how long or short span , spent together rejuvenates the ... Express it in your small ways, all the time. ... Trust and loyalty are glues that keep the relation ...
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@cjko True love is rare. If you have found the SPECIAL PERSON then don't make him/ her your EX rather build a breath lasting relationship together......
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@cjko You have no control over what the world does to you, over the various forces in the universe, but you have all the control over yourself. And the one who controls himself, effectively controls the universe.
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@mr_peanut true. But why do couples still break after a decade or more ? haha
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@mr_peanut this is threatening. hahaha
like you invested a lot of time, feelings and all.. then at the end of the day, viola! gone.
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Long term relationship all the way. It's true that:
@cjko said in What would you rather have and why:
like you invested a lot of time, feelings and all.. then at the end of the day, viola! gone.
But I rather invest the said time, feelings and much more in something that made me feel alive, then have an half assed excuse of a relationship. It's either do or die.
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@mr-h hahaha true. Someone like you is rare. I mean someone who gamble for love no matter what is rare.
We should ALL know that investing everything to someone should be cherished and valued. Not to waste it..
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@bela hmmm yeah.. true. So, are you telling us the fate vs. people who fight for it ?
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@bela yeah.. true that belle.
Hmm, that's a heavy word for us.
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@mr_peanut TRUE
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@giant-panda I would definitely agree. But there are also Long-Term Relationship got wasted. Like it did give you the opposite feeling while you have it.hahha
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@giant-panda true.. but sometimes, fate plays unfair.
