Is this bad news for healthy people? Oh my ... I wish I've had eat more sugar when I had the chance.

@cjko Whenever I think of rotten fruit I usually think of tomatoes, no reason in particular xD
But yes, I am kinda of aloof person, rather be left alone in some situations

So I recently discovered this Bechdel Test, that analyzes if through a movie or any other show there is not a single moment in which girls gossip about guys. If this happens at some point, the show won't pass the test. I wonder if there is some rule similar to this, but applies to guys talking about girls...

That said, is there any movie that passes the test you want to share?

I personally enjoy thrillers and mistery, so I'd recomend you to read "you", "Hidden bodies", "the girl on the train" and "Da Vinci's Code".

I would like to be a rotten tomato (or any other damaged vegetable), so people would not harvest me and just let me be, instead of being slaughtered by someone's teeth and stomach's acids.

In fact I think it is more important the emotional compatibilty, it all comes down to familiarity and we are, since very little, recieving and building a background of our emotions and the emotions that surround us. As we grow old, we expect to find reencounter most of the emotions we felt as kids, because that's the enviornment we feel comfortable in, even if it's not good or limitating for us. Thanks

First things first, I think that trying to identify why is he acting that way is crucial. Start by asking little questions, without by being too evasive.
@brokendown36 I dont know if you're a girl or a guy, but I think the first step to be fully confortable with someone is having great communication skills. If that seems impossible even before something happens between you (which is completely normal) how do you expect it to work on the long run? I know it is a struggle for most people, but for love you have to have the courage and the humility to work above average. And of course no one can do it simply without feeling anxious or sweaty, but that's part of the growth and you should consider to see it as an opportunity for your future, even if it doesn't work out. It'll get better.

Finally, i think you should talk to him, but make sure you're on a comfortable space in which you both don't feel rushed or observed, but by one another. And remember, it'll only get awkward if you make it awkward. I hope I helped at some point, good luck!

@petrapark3r Yeah, experience told me not to try to understand everything... Not only it is impossible, but also because women don't like to be told what to feel, or how to feel (actually no one likes that). Good point

You refer to overlaping emitons to people who you have no attatchment strings with? If that's the case, I'd say about 0% eheheh.

As for the people who are my closest I'd say nearly 50%. However, this is a very abstract concept which can not be measured, at all.

How are those numbers computed? If I'm not completely mistaken, heterosexual relationships in the western world were close to 100% (for women that is at least) minus a few priests and nuns...

I didn't know that, but I was talking mostly about america and mostly liberal countries, whose reflect better the tendency when people are leaded by freedom (not entirely, but partially, ofc). And no, I did no research at all, this could just be a reflection of my own opinions