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@Eucalyptus my analyzation wouldnt be accurate but I think she's sorrowful abt how she want and capable of giving back more than she had been given but still finding a mistyrious excuse to not do so .. maybe cause she feels full of emotions that wont be interpreted well by others . I hope I knew something 😕