If you stop looking for a relationship, life will literally throw one in your face. But there's like a ton of places you can meet people gym, running club, work, zoo. Don't be afraid to go places yourself, smile at people and you'll be surprised at how many react. I met my first girlfriend in McDonald's, I was ordering food and she complimented my accent. (I have a thick Irish accent)
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@nycspilot hmm sounds optimist. :) Well, I like the way how you perceive things like that. But, what do you think is the reason to start anew?
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@green-archer true indeed. What do you think are the false perceptions? Well, I think it's about pretending and lying from the start of the rel.
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@cjko my girl likes girls...what do i do
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@cjko as a scientist i would say its because love is a chemical reaction and it will end sometime , its just a need to reproduce and it will fail 80% i hope i didnt just ruin somebody elses life dont worry you still have around 20% chance that your love chemical reaction will not stop duringy your lifetime :3
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@cjko 3.
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@cjko i am back btw.
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@cjko I don’t think there is one definitive reason to start anew life and death are just known parts f life...we know things start and we also know they end and we are all just trying to figure out the best way to get through whats inbetween those moments
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@cjko Relying on your partner for your happiness
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@murdagangshit omg. Well, you should accept her decision. She just came out of her shell and showed her true colors. :)
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@spaceboy said in Reasons why relationships fail::
@cjko As wiki says:
The hedgehog's dilemma, or sometimes the porcupine dilemma, is a metaphor about the challenges of human intimacy. It describes a situation in which a group of hedgehogs seek to move close to one another to share heat during cold weather. They must remain apart, however, as they cannot avoid hurting one another with their sharp spines. Though they all share the intention of a close reciprocal relationship, this may not occur, for reasons they cannot avoid.omg, I like this Hedgehog's dilemma. It explains why you got hurt sometimes.. It's just being part of the nature and part of being someone who does feel something. :) Thank you for this BTW
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@jessicagrant said in Reasons why relationships fail::
@cjko as a scientist i would say its because love is a chemical reaction and it will end sometime , its just a need to reproduce and it will fail 80% i hope i didnt just ruin somebody elses life dont worry you still have around 20% chance that your love chemical reaction will not stop duringy your lifetime :3
hahaha thank you for this.. well, if that's the case.. how are you going to explain those couple who stayed in love til death ? :)
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@rendezvous 3 is kinda waste of time for me.. :D
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@nycspilot wow. yeah true.. you mean, this is the nature of loving.. you get hurt and love again.
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@giant-panda well, you can't blame that person who relies her happiness to that someone, because that someone is her source of happiness.
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@cjko but problem with this is that it may put too much pressure on your partner.
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@cjko i aleready mentioned the chemical reaction can stay for a lifetime , or just 1 day, it is random :3
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@giant-panda which is true
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@jessicagrant ok,, thank you
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- Not enough trust
- building the relationship on a bad foundation
- bad communication
- putting too many expectations on the other person
- not being ready