love is amazing i fly in it.
Why do loyal people often get hurt in a relationship ?
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@Devriar
I'm sorry. :( Take a deep breath, learn your lesson and look forward -
@Shardana very well said!
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@Shardana thanks for your kind words.
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@Devriar
I didn't say anything in particular, but I did it with real pleasure :)
My best, best wishes -
@Devriar your ex cheated on you?
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@Lolxlmao yes
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@Lolxlmao said in Why do loyal people often get hurt in a relationship ?:
@Devriar your ex cheated on you?
@Devriar said in Why do loyal people often get hurt in a relationship ?:
@Lolxlmao yes
@Devriar How did you get cheated on? :thinking:
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@Shardana everything one would want to hear and consider. nicely done!
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I think it caused u blind your eyes to see reality, deafen your ears to hear the truth for your loyalty or your love. Loyal is good actually, but too much loyal with another person as well as be your self is not good too.
So you should balance it, and u won't feel pain too much when your loyalty is betrayed. -
@Kiersen Interesting .. but
Loyalty cannot be imposed, it is an act of freedom in which a person chooses who or what to offer commitment, respect and interest to. Those who are loyal make a courageous choice, that of following their own moral principles and if you follow them, you cannot balance them, you cannot choose to be too much or not honest .. I don't think it can be quantified. If it were possible to balance it, we would risk falling into hypocyrisy .. and hypocrisy is contrary to loyalty.
Finally, being yourself is the only option I know .. because otherwise, with filters and masks you risk being a simple character, an extra ... more mask than person ... maybe you won't make many friends, but you will have those right. :) -
@Shardana dm me please. I wanna ask you something
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@Devriar here or in pvt?
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My husband cheated on me 22 years ago and I still cannot get over it at all.
He says he will love her forever more, but the stupid thing is I am still with him I must be mad -
@winolady Love is blind :)
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@Lolxlmao can u explain how is it blind ?
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@Lolxlmao idk why others do what they do but what we can do is not to have expectations so we don't end up getting hurt
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Disloyalty in a committed relationship is one of the worst things one human being can do to another human being. Not only have you wasted someone's time and effort, you've indulged yourself into thinking you can betray the very foundation of trust between one human and another. It is far better to leave a person, than to destroy a person like that.
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@Shardana hi dm me! its urgent.
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@Shardana dm Me please
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