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Do people fall Love @ First sight ?
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Any form of love to others is self love , we fall in love to enjoy the story but not the character in the story . So we always need to " be" as beings , our selves need the " Drama scenario " to reach multiple goals or achievments , to feel needed is an achievment , to fill the need of ur partner is another achievment and so on ... even sex as a natural act hides a deeper meaning than fullfilling the lust , it is the " I am good enough " feeling in some scenarios or " I am able to make the partner enjoy my body so I am important in this world at least for 1 " ... life is a psychological game people play wearing different masks to hide their vulnurability , cz if they say their intentions clearly , most partners would breakup or even seek revenge for being used or fooled , even the one who put this mask on will feel detached from society afterwards ... . For me from a personal standpoint , I choose to be the veiwer of the full picture to satisfy my ego instead of using an innocent soul and that's an honorable way of " being " in my opinion .
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@erikagautney from this reply I fig that 4 letter word doesn't give us what it was
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@The-Mods That's on point and straight-up opinion. @ start it sounded wired but later you concluded with good choose of being "be'
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Yes ppl fall in love at first sight... And when it breaks then its heart breaking like hell
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Nah @Dirty-Dimond I kinda get what @The-Mods were driving at. It only sounds weird if you're not familiar with teachings and philosophies borne out of Dharmic traditions such as Hinduism, Jainism, Buddhism, Zen, Taoism, etc.
It would be like how if someone from one of the Abrahamic religions like Judaism or Christianity or Islam commented on here and suggested that since the capital G deity embodies perfect love, every expression of human love is a reflection of that. But the desires of the flesh "at first sight" can't compare to the sacred and holy covenant that a marriage represents. Love is patient, love is kind, it doesn't envy, it doesn't boast, it is not proud, etc etc and whatever other attributes that gets listed out in that scripture - I can't recall it all from memory, but you get the general idea.
If you don't come from the same background as they do, then from the outside looking in, it'll sound strange. Framing any and every instance of love with respect to an almighty and all-knowing entity who created you before you were born and knows before you die whether your afterlife will be ecstatic bliss for forever or eternal torment and torture. Couching "love" in between all that baggage sounds super weird for someone who doesn't buy into all of the theology that surrounds it.
Similarly, according to various eastern religions, every single person is actually the exact same being "behind the scenes" it's just that we all forget that we're all individual expressions of the deity. Effectively, we're all wearing theatrical masks and fully immersed in the role of (insert your name here) as we play out the drama of life.
Couched within that surrounding context, they wrote that "to feel needed", "to fill their need", and "even sex as a natural act" are all various goals of love (explored and expressed and achieved on "the stage that is our lives" so to speak). And since we're all the same entity underneath (again, the idea here is that "we" have fully forgotten that we're divine so that "it" may become fully immersed in the thrill of the drama being played out without being spoiled by knowing how the ending will play out beforehand etc) every form of selfless love is actually "capital S" Self-love.
Lmao the funny thing is you said that whole schpeel just boiled down to their opinion and the only part you didn't find weird was the sentiment they shared at the very end... but that was the one part which they clearly said is driven by their personal opinion and for the sake of their own ego rather than any of these lofty ideals and theological philosophies of love ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Essentially, what they were conveying at the end there was something along the lines of "I prefer to be among the audience watching you all falling head over heels for each other rather than actually getting involved with any one of you. I'm not a loving participant, I'm an outside observer. I consider it an honor to write ratings and reviews about your onstage performance while I detach myself from the drama and take it all in from afar."
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If the question was lust at first sight then I think everyone could answer “yes”
Love at first sight on the other hand, occasionally I think it is possible but for me personally it hasn’t happened, I think love needs time to develop. -
with things and ideas yes with people no
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@Dirty-Dimond with Judy? Yes. With others? May be 😼
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@Dirty-Dimond Attraction at first sight is possible; love, no.
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love is amazing i fly in it.
