Loyalty is one of the highest virtues, but it is often seen as a symptom of weakness, especially by those who don't even know what it is, because they lack moral principles. For some it is boring, so they look for new stimuli elsewhere, because they know they will still have a safe haven to return to .. like a faithful animal waiting for its master to return. Just as in the food chain the strongest eats the weakest, so in relationships the most stupid often makes sensitive, honest people suffer. Cheating is not love, it is disrespect, which is the basis of any type of relationship. You can choose to continue suffering in a disturbed relationship or walk away with dignity. For your love and his/her too. It serves to grow and be reborn :)

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Personally not. Suffering, this scares me.
People are afraid of death, because it is a mystery, no one has ever come back to explain what happens and what it feels like .. this sense of ignorance anguishes us .. it is something we cannot control

curious
because I like to learn :)

Not necessarily. The relationship could work, regardless of age. Probably, the aspect to be evaluated would be that linked to the prejudices of society. In fact, if in the world of celebrities you hear about it frequently and the taboo now appears cleared through customs, the same is not true in the everyday world, where relationships with the older woman tend to arouse suspicion about the actual sentimental involvement of the younger man. When she is older than him, the instinctive reaction is one of distrust, and this happens due to social conditioning, primarily the stereotypical roles of the female and male within the couple. He strong and protective, she weak and in need of care.

Unfortunately ignorance is a plague that has plagued humanity since the dawn of time .. there is a vaccine, but not everyone wants to get vaccinated. this ignorance sometimes generates hatred, towards what is not known or known but not understood either. Where reason does not arrive, always try with education.

the truth can hurt more than a lie. But it is always the best choice, the choice of respect. A lie is always a lie

Don't judge a book by its cover alone. So you can't judge all guys just because someone is misbehaving. The behaviors of people are not male or female, they involve both. ;)

The best revenge is always forgiveness. Don't fall into the trap of bad feelings, they change you, not who receives them.
Taking revenge also means giving too much attention to those who no longer deserve it. Don't do it, focus on the important things in life, live serene :)

@test_account said in Why do loyal people often get hurt in a relationship ?:

ery true, I've told my friends this many times. Hate how the innocent tend to match up with the manipulative.

I agree..Correct manipulators! very often the cheaters, the liars tend to be manipulative .. the problem is that if we do not get away from unhealthy relationships, we will always be the only ones to suffer :(

@BtoDee Young prince, I am sincere. I really hope you will find love. Which is wonderful but frightening, because we are always afraid of not being reciprocated. But you know what? The real meaning of love is to love, to give unconditionally. Quick love does not exist, it is only pleasure or attraction, because when it ends maybe it never really was. Getting infatuated is easy, we like someone and think we are in love with them, but we love an ideal more than a person. Love, on the other hand, is true when you don't even know what you like about the other person, yet you like everything, you want her next to you, love often comes with time and knowledge and is strengthened with complicity, dialogue, the desire to be us instead of I. Wanting to be loved is natural, asking for love is not, if you ask for it you will not be loved. How do you know you really are?. You have to live it .. Love conquers you and not vice versa. I wish you true love, may you grow old with the same person and look at her in 60 years or more as if it were the first time. Good luck :)

@tempname439 You know? I didn't say anything because I wasn't sure what he was really looking for. That's why I asked. I don't like to judge and I can be wrong. But I saw no intention of selling or buying love, rather even reading what he has in subsequent posts, a request for attention, melancholy and fear. I can only hope that he will be able to find what he is looking for, "off the screen", because feelings must be lived, touched by hand and the screen is just a cold container. I say this with my heart, because luckily love is not something you can buy, you can buy moments of pleasure, but not this feeling, which is wonderful because it is spontaneous. I also hope he understands that love is looking for you, it happens suddenly, and you only notice it when you are in it.

Forgive me but it looks more like the announcement for a girlfriend.
Friendship is genderless and you can have "intellectual" conversations with men too. It rather resembles a .. friendship with possible evolution into something more.
It is an interesting request and description of yourself .. I hope you will find what you are looking for :) :)

Hi :)
How are you?
Here i am. I ' m really close to your age

I like to draw, it relaxes me. I tried it in elementary school, for a test in class, it went well. Even my profile drawing here looks a lot like me, even if it's not mine a work :)

@Sumbo-DeSpeshal I agree. Your answer makes sense.
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sometimes hard work is not enough
i don't believe in fate

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