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Loyalty is one of the highest virtues, but it is often seen as a symptom of weakness, especially by those who don't even know what it is, because they lack moral principles. For some it is boring, so they look for new stimuli elsewhere, because they know they will still have a safe haven to return to .. like a faithful animal waiting for its master to return. Just as in the food chain the strongest eats the weakest, so in relationships the most stupid often makes sensitive, honest people suffer. Cheating is not love, it is disrespect, which is the basis of any type of relationship. You can choose to continue suffering in a disturbed relationship or walk away with dignity. For your love and his/her too. It serves to grow and be reborn :)

I live in the most beautiful country in the world. It is history, art, culture, fashion, beautiful beaches and crystal clear seas, snow-capped mountains and one of the best cuisine in the world. There is everything and much more. Italy .. a true masterpiece

Personally not. Suffering, this scares me.
People are afraid of death, because it is a mystery, no one has ever come back to explain what happens and what it feels like .. this sense of ignorance anguishes us .. it is something we cannot control

curious
because I like to learn :)

Not necessarily. The relationship could work, regardless of age. Probably, the aspect to be evaluated would be that linked to the prejudices of society. In fact, if in the world of celebrities you hear about it frequently and the taboo now appears cleared through customs, the same is not true in the everyday world, where relationships with the older woman tend to arouse suspicion about the actual sentimental involvement of the younger man. When she is older than him, the instinctive reaction is one of distrust, and this happens due to social conditioning, primarily the stereotypical roles of the female and male within the couple. He strong and protective, she weak and in need of care.

Unfortunately ignorance is a plague that has plagued humanity since the dawn of time .. there is a vaccine, but not everyone wants to get vaccinated. this ignorance sometimes generates hatred, towards what is not known or known but not understood either. Where reason does not arrive, always try with education.

the truth can hurt more than a lie. But it is always the best choice, the choice of respect. A lie is always a lie

Don't judge a book by its cover alone. So you can't judge all guys just because someone is misbehaving. The behaviors of people are not male or female, they involve both. ;)

The best revenge is always forgiveness. Don't fall into the trap of bad feelings, they change you, not who receives them.
Taking revenge also means giving too much attention to those who no longer deserve it. Don't do it, focus on the important things in life, live serene :)

@test_account said in Why do loyal people often get hurt in a relationship ?:

ery true, I've told my friends this many times. Hate how the innocent tend to match up with the manipulative.

I agree..Correct manipulators! very often the cheaters, the liars tend to be manipulative .. the problem is that if we do not get away from unhealthy relationships, we will always be the only ones to suffer :(

curious learner :)

@CarmenSensus said in Haiku(unrequited love):

Chest flutters like leaves.
An endless sense of longing.
Her eyes look through me

it's beautiful!!

Happiness is the positive state of mind of those who believe their desires satisfied. Actually I think it's an extremely difficult concept to define. What I think is that happiness can exist in those who know how to please, maybe it's a small thing. Men are constantly hungry, for success, for money, for food, for sex, for everything. Wanting more does not allow us to focus on what we already have. The sense of satiety is missing

@Devriar
I'm sorry. :( Take a deep breath, learn your lesson and look forward

@Jack-Wax said in what do you all think is going towards haters of india what should be done to this people ???/:

The reason many of us dislike india is because there are always horny indian men who will approach you on the internet asking to see bobs and vagene and it is very irritating and vulgar, i personaly believe india is a beautiful country

Omy .. Horny men are found in every country .. it's just prejudice and
It is sad that people are judged, based on only a few cases. Few cases don't describe the totality. You like India but you criticize it .. it's contradictory ;)

Impressive!
You can find something you are not looking for? .. human beings are devoted to consumerism, they yearn for happiness, they don't really follow it.

@Devriar
I didn't say anything in particular, but I did it with real pleasure :)
My best, best wishes

@Merlin-James
No. Culture is important, but it is not binding. Certainly the cultural norms present some differences, but the culture itself is not static .. and it has always been important for the evolution of societies. Strssa culture is evolution. I always look at everything with curiosity, without prejudice, I am led to think, rather than to judge, to ask more than to find answers. The culture itself in any society is not limiting are the corporate dogmas .. a legacy of superstition and religion mixed together. Knowledge helps to understand, where ignorance has doubts and hinders any culture. So I still think not, no cultural norm is binding in itself.
I always think it's up to the individual to make good use of our cultural heritage :)

@Kiersen Interesting .. but
Loyalty cannot be imposed, it is an act of freedom in which a person chooses who or what to offer commitment, respect and interest to. Those who are loyal make a courageous choice, that of following their own moral principles and if you follow them, you cannot balance them, you cannot choose to be too much or not honest .. I don't think it can be quantified. If it were possible to balance it, we would risk falling into hypocyrisy .. and hypocrisy is contrary to loyalty.
Finally, being yourself is the only option I know .. because otherwise, with filters and masks you risk being a simple character, an extra ... more mask than person ... maybe you won't make many friends, but you will have those right. :)