Posts made by Shardana

@BtoDee Young prince, I am sincere. I really hope you will find love. Which is wonderful but frightening, because we are always afraid of not being reciprocated. But you know what? The real meaning of love is to love, to give unconditionally. Quick love does not exist, it is only pleasure or attraction, because when it ends maybe it never really was. Getting infatuated is easy, we like someone and think we are in love with them, but we love an ideal more than a person. Love, on the other hand, is true when you don't even know what you like about the other person, yet you like everything, you want her next to you, love often comes with time and knowledge and is strengthened with complicity, dialogue, the desire to be us instead of I. Wanting to be loved is natural, asking for love is not, if you ask for it you will not be loved. How do you know you really are?. You have to live it .. Love conquers you and not vice versa. I wish you true love, may you grow old with the same person and look at her in 60 years or more as if it were the first time. Good luck :)

@tempname439 You know? I didn't say anything because I wasn't sure what he was really looking for. That's why I asked. I don't like to judge and I can be wrong. But I saw no intention of selling or buying love, rather even reading what he has in subsequent posts, a request for attention, melancholy and fear. I can only hope that he will be able to find what he is looking for, "off the screen", because feelings must be lived, touched by hand and the screen is just a cold container. I say this with my heart, because luckily love is not something you can buy, you can buy moments of pleasure, but not this feeling, which is wonderful because it is spontaneous. I also hope he understands that love is looking for you, it happens suddenly, and you only notice it when you are in it.

Forgive me but it looks more like the announcement for a girlfriend.
Friendship is genderless and you can have "intellectual" conversations with men too. It rather resembles a .. friendship with possible evolution into something more.
It is an interesting request and description of yourself .. I hope you will find what you are looking for :) :)

Hi :)
How are you?
Here i am. I ' m really close to your age

I like to draw, it relaxes me. I tried it in elementary school, for a test in class, it went well. Even my profile drawing here looks a lot like me, even if it's not mine a work :)

@Sumbo-DeSpeshal I agree. Your answer makes sense.
There are no monsters in the mythological sense

Tulip
Definitely i m crazy about tulips..Simple and regal

my username is related to an ancient population that lived in my region at least a thousand years ago

I believe in smart hard work
sometimes hard work is not enough
i don't believe in fate

Echo by Michael Ortega

@AdSi Hello :)
I have read carefully what you have written. Honestly, many answers to your addictions, obsessions are already inside you and in your words. Have you ever wondered who you want to be? I'm not talking about psychology, it's not my field and I don't have the necessary skills. Forgive me I just try to learn and improve myself and why not, if I can be useful .. to be there for real.
We all have demons with whom we fight on a daily basis, getting up in the morning is a challenge, whenever you do you have decided to fight. Addictions probably reveal a lack of something, they are an escape valve .. once you have clarified within yourself, I mean inner cleansing, who knows maybe things will improve.
Personally I don't know anyone with the same story as you and I don't want to make up stories. I have respect for everyone, but Alda Merini is a fixed point, maybe you will find in her the answers you are looking for or new questions, or both ... but go on. If you talk about it it is because you are stronger, unconsciously you know it, by writing you show it. Stay safe
Yes, thank you, I'm fine.

I am Libra .. I don't believe in the zodiac it's just superstition. Attracting others depends on other factors, such as personality, good manners, even good looks, but certainly not on the zodiac sign.

If you believe in good, in angels, you must also think that there is evil and therefore demons. Personally I am an atheist. But I have read several books on the subject, mostly by famous exorcists and the most famous in my country. The stories are incredible. Honestly as an atheist I tell you that yes, I think they can exist, because mental pathologies are excluded before practicing an exorcism. It can only be practiced after careful psychiatric and medical examinations. Maybe

You talk about many things using past tense .. "I was a compulsive gambler and I lost" .. talking about it in the past means that you have won or maybe you live in the fear of making the same mistakes again, of remaining a slave to your addictions. Is it perhaps a form of emotional deficiency, I wonder? Do you become addicted because you need ties?. Forgive me, it is just a reasoning, stupid, I don't know your steps, your demons and your battles. I reopen this site after a long absence and have noticed that you are good at writing and almost inspired. If you can there is a poet whose story I would like you to look for .. she is famous, good, but she has spent a long time in the mental health Institute. Her name is Alda Merini
I really hope you can find peace and everything your heart is craving for :)

Often people don't know how to behave and they do it the wrong way, sometimes intentionally .. usually those who love less are stronger, and they take advantage of this. All this, however, does not speak of us, but of the other. Those who love les often have unresolved problems with themselves and with others. In a relationship, any type of relationship people must be equal ... or you risk physical and mental slavery, no one must have too much power, you must be allies and accomplices, not masters and servants. Those who love you respect you, I think this, so at the first opposite sign, it is necessary to go away, to grow
. It's interesting the way you think :)

Honestly no. I think it's just a philosophical concept, I don't believe in the existence of the soul. I believe instead in true love, what is forever .. I like to see 2 elderly people who after so many years, difficulties, still hold hands and look at each other as if it were the first day .. little things that make them perfect, adorable, loved ones. This is better than the concept of soulmate, because it's real

i would like to be happy more than famous
Being a nobody is good, you can see world in a different way, you can really see world

Money is not God, we are the ones who give importance to money, because we can buy and foolishly think we can buy everything. The truth is that too much money makes you slaves, lonely, paranoid. The deanro is a means to live well, but that's not all. Health is everything .. this is our real engine

Meloncholy
It's beautiful..thanks for shared

How beautiful and profound your words, your story is full of a thousand emotions. Thanks for sharing, not everyone is able to open up and tell who they are. We are all slaves to something, mentally or physically, we live in a prison that others choose for us. What matters is that you can feel good, feel good about yourself. Thank you very much