I'd like to tell anyone who is struggling to find a reason to carry on; Think of a memory. Think of a time in your life when you were truly happy, no matter how how big or small that moment was, dwell on it. Now think of a time in your life when things were worse than they are for you now, a time when you thought there was nary a chance to come through it in one piece. let it pass through your mind for a moment. Think back to people you have loved, who have loved you in return, regardless of where they are now, take a moment to analyze your triumphs and your failures. understand that no matter what happens in life, you have to keep the goodness from your past held strong in your heart, and carry that joy with you in the darkest of shadows, You need to look back on the events in your life that just about broke you in two, and draw strength from that. You are still here, You're still fighting, even if you don't want to, even if you feel like you cant. embrace that fighting spirit. and turn your pain into motivation, channel all that emotion into a fuel for your will. and keep in mind. there have been times in your life where you knew joy, and those days will return, especially if you FIGHT for them. life doesn't get easier. I wish I could say that it does, but that would be a lie. The difference lies with you. You get better at handling the hardship, and eventually, events that almost broke you will seem like no big deal, so long as you keep striving to do better. the last thing i'd like to say; You can only rely on yourself at the end of the day. Learn to love yourself, accept your flaws, and change the things that are in your power to change. You have to accept yourself for who you are, because you cant break up with, nor cut ties with yourself. you have to accept every mistake and shortcoming and love yourself unconditionally. on top of that, you most likely have people that love you, that need you in this world, and would never be the same without you. You can make it through this, even if you are at your lowest, for if that's the case, the only way to go is up.
Have you ever been hurt by someone you loved so much?
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@MillieBee when someone you loved hurts you, you feel the pain but just know dealing with it is the most important part. The effects will be positive or negative depending on the way you dealt with the pain
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@MillieBee welll it depends how are you hurt 🙁🙁.
If she hurt me intentionally then definitely I'll not love anyone after that but if she hurt me by mistake then definitely I'll forgive her cause I love her very much.. -
@Cold-Sun yes, we all have our own ways of dealing with pain. In my case, I completely shut everyone out. I bottle up emotions and just pretend it never happened :(
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@Mickeyyyyy I mean there is always room for forgiveness BUT how many times can one forgive? What if it happens again?
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People are just a series of conditioned behaviours
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True, you can’t forgive someone for the same mistake infinite times. People’s priorities change over time, and they might stop caring about you the way they did before. If you’re too weak to come to terms with that, there’s no point in staying in the relationship anymore feeling hurt and alone all the time. Have the self-respect to not let anyone take you for granted.
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@MillieBee Yes 😔
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@MillieBee yes it happened but now i am strong enough not take too much time to recover.
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@Escanor_ if you felt like you were being ignored, why stay in that relationship? Don't tell me you loved her. I call that BS. I'm happy you have found you worth and have moved on. So happy for you.
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Exactly. I’m not in it anymore, I couldn’t take the pain anymore really. And if that’s what you think, maybe I should show her the scar on my arm again. But whatev, it’s over now :(
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Lmao I’m kinda regretting teaching someone how to make a post🤣😵
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@MillieBee Move on, thats it.
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@Escanor_ you know what, I say you deserve to be happy. So you be happy.
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Somewhat yeah
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@MillieBee
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In time hurt turns into a vague memory where you wonder why you were hurt to begin with.
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Yes!
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@MillieBee everyone does, so you too. I’m happy for you that you’ve moved on :) Take care bruh..
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@Escanor_ moved on? Bruh I am dead. Thank you kind sir