What if you're gay already? Does it cancel the gayness out or double it? Can I extend my lifetime by taking it to its highest exponent?

Unbeknownst to your heart,
a path has been layed out,
a path for you to walk.

Laced with saphires and diamonds,
embraced by beautiful flowers,
and pure spring water for you alone.

A path that is an adventure,
a call that is about to come,
for you to see the light.

Under the cruciatum you will find,
what was always with you,
and always will be.

For the eye cannot see,
what the heart understands,
when it becomes one.

@TM I'm not even going to dignify those questions with a response. For someone who claims to have a purity-oriented mindset, you seem pathologically obsessed with my sexual life, which is far less varied than you credit it to be. I wouldn't be surprised if your fascination with dicks (prosthetic and otherwise) reflected your actual inclinations.

First of all, people don't stop noticing attractive people just because they're in a relationship. That's perfectly natural and has nothing to do with your looks or your partner's ability to remain faithful. However, one thing is to steal a glance at a passerby, another is to gawk or give them a lingering stare, which makes everyone involved uncomfortable. You've already brought up the subject, and he's made no effort to accommodate your request. Are you willing to tolerate this behavior in order to preserve a relationship where you feel disrespected, or will you break the cycle? Nobody can make that choice for you.

1. New Zealand (partly because of the stunning scenery, partly because I'm a huge Tolkien nerd)

2. Turkey (I want to visit both Istanbul and Capadoccia)

3. The Scottish Highlands

Bonus destinations: Kyoto, Morocco, Iceland

My takeaway is that you're pursuing a long-term relationship with someone who's not ready to commit due to deep-seated mental issues. Are you emotionally equipped and willing to take this arrangement for what it is rather than what you want it to be? Everything that you've mentioned till now seems to be indicative that you aren't. Keep in mind that there's no quick fix, and the situation isn't going to change overnight (if it ever does), so you can either adjust your expectations or leave while you still are on good terms.

She informed me of a guy that he manager at her job is trying to hook her up with and she told me she wasn't interested but because of the no official " label" of her and I she tells the dude she isn't interested in dating him. But the guy is persistent and keeps showing up to her work and texting her and because we aren't really official but she basically treats my like a significant other Im in a position where I don't really have any say over the whole thing.

Your ladyfriend's acquaintance refuses to leave her alone even though she's manifestly turned him down (saying you're not interested should be enough for someone to back off, mind you, no need to make clear you already "belong to" another guy). This is not a call for you to step in like a knight armed with jealousy. She should reach out to HR or get the authorities involved.

@Indrid-Cold did you ever go to the malaap club on stokesCroft? Sadly long gone but i loved that place, you could have a meal, shoot some pool, watch a comedy show and rock out to a punk gig all in the same place on the same night. Took my first acid trip there when I was 16, that was interesting, I made friends with a giant black eagle haha, it was incredible how he fitted in the place with his 60 foot wingspan and even more incredible that he could telepathically communicate in English lol

@Indrid-Cold loving the fun lovin' criminals reference there D! And jealous of your Stewart lee autograph, fucking mad intense funny intelligent nutter that he is! The words curmudgeon and irony were invented just for him haha. Anyhow, good to see you're still around. All the best mate