What is it you really don't like in a partner?
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@petrapark3r Armpit. Quite unique na?
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@tk_94 said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r Armpit. Quite unique na?
Like her's? or yours?
I don't know how unique such things are :shrug:
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@petrapark3r even I find that too unique and vague too😝
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@TheRisingSun , is their a potential for that? I must admit some of them are amazing looking and you can’t tell they were men ( are men) well until the dress comes off. 😳surprise!
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@tk_94 said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r even I find that too unique and vague too😝
Was that vague? Her armpit? Or yours? :yum: Don't worry, this is a community of pervs. We can handle the truth :joy:
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@petrapark3r sorry.. we can chat about that personally..😂😜
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@petrapark3r said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
Oh and duvet hogging 😂
Now that's what I'm talking about... I wonder if people do that subconsciously :thinking_face:
I'm pretty sure it's usually subconscious, unless they are the sort to deliberately wind you up/make you have an awful cold night's sleep...
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@nightshifter said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@TheRisingSun , is their a potential for that? I must admit some of them are amazing looking and you can’t tell they were men ( are men) well until the dress comes off. 😳surprise!
I think it's very impolite to let things get that far before giving any indication. When the poor straight guys used to hit on me I'd put them right as early as possible, unless they were the lechy creepy perv type in which case I'd occasionally have a little fun with them first... nothing they didn't bring upon themselves 😂
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@tk_94 said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r sorry.. we can chat about that personally..😂😜
On second thought I'm not that interested in the pervy details of your personal relationship. :yum: Nothing personal :joy:
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@petrapark3r hey I wasn't saying anything pervy.. but you asked for details and I was feeling shy sharing it here.
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@petrapark3r Selfishness and being needy.... I'm already the needy one there can't be two🙄
If they have bad humor, or super messy, or have bad taste in music, or bad taste in shows, or ignorant, or inconsiderate, and they have to love animals!!
As you can see I'm very picky 😋 -
@OliveOlivia said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r Selfishness and being needy.... I'm already the needy one there can't be two🙄
If they have bad humor, or super messy, or have bad taste in music, or bad taste in shows, or ignorant, or inconsiderate, and they have to love animals!!
As you can see I'm very picky 😋Uh, that indeed is a long list! I hope you don't require your partner to get a 100% score. You might not get lucky then :yum:
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@petrapark3r There are no requirements, just preferences. But relationships are about compromises so there's always room for that too !
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@OliveOlivia said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r There are no requirements, just preferences. But relationships are about compromises so there's always room for that too !
Fair enough Milady, fair enough! :tea:
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@petrapark3r one thing I don't like about my S.O is that he often tends to keep up the hard conversations saved up for later...I really hate that about him. It's okay to keep putting off hard conversations in order to keep the peace and harmony in the relationship however doing so always brings up bigger problems for us later and we end up fighting...which could've been easily avoided by talking things out. So yeah I really hate the I'll solve this out later attitude
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@petrapark3r
Familiarity breeds contempt. Or so the saying goes.
I would say that it's relatively true.
I don't sweat any of the little things possibly with the exception of not listening and pretending that you are.
Dishonesty is my number 1 on things that I don't like (and will not have) in a relationship.
I don't care how bad the news is I would much rather be told by my significant other rather than hear it through the grapevine. -
@wet-teri said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r
Familiarity breeds contempt. Or so the saying goes.
I would say that it's relatively true.yea, you never realize how annoying a person can be until you live with them under the same roof...
I don't sweat any of the little things possibly with the exception of not listening and pretending that you are.
Yeah, in the end we have to bear the little things like a sacrifice of love.
But the big things, yea, they can really hurt. About the listening: I believe to be a good listener, like you can get from me 100% attention, you'd love it. But there are also moments where my brain just flys off into neverland and i dont know how to control that. I guess I should warn othera about it...
Dishonesty is my number 1 on things that I don't like (and will not have) in a relationship.
I don't care how bad the news is I would much rather be told by my significant other rather than hear it through the grapevine.Agreed. Fully. Personally.
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@petrapark3r
I don't guess you are anywhere near Louisiana and in the 35 to 60 year old bracket are you? -
@wet-teri said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r
I don't guess you are anywhere near Louisiana and in the 35 to 60 year old bracket are you?Nope, very sorry. Also I'm male and straight if the question is pointing in that direction. But I don't limit whom I listen to by sexual preference, so if I'm ever near Louisiana, I'll let you know :hugging_face:
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@Anastasia-Smith said in What is it you really don't like in a partner?:
@petrapark3r one thing I don't like about my S.O is that he often tends to keep up the hard conversations saved up for later...I really hate that about him. It's okay to keep putting off hard conversations in order to keep the peace and harmony in the relationship however doing so will always brings up bigger problems for us later and we end up fighting...which could've been easily avoided by talking things out. So yeah I really hate the I'll solve this out later attitude
Yeah, that attitude can be a real problem for every relationship. And it makes things much much worse...