You don't have a join account? Ok, yes change pin or spend it all first, just make sure he pays his half of the rent?

@sarah girls age 20 to 22 and boys age 26 to 28

@girlnextdoor there was never one. There were a lot of potentials. Picking a "one" actually puts a lot of expectation on someone, especially if you've only just got together. Need to just ease up and see how things go, and not be afraid to try again if it doesn't turn out