"We accept the love we think we deserve"
Chbosky
Dr. Seuss ā "You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."
Im engaged to this girl, weve been together for over 2 years and weve known each other for more years than what i remember. I have this really good friend who i talk to most of the time and im trying to distance myself from her so i dont hurt anyone. I have feelings for my friend but i love my fiancee. I suck at relationship stuff and i dont know what the feck to do. Help.
@kateflet You do what you think you should do
Its hard to do that. But follow your heart
if you don't then you will regret it soon enough
As long as your feelings for your friends do not hurt your relationship with your wife or destroy the friendship you have with the friend. It's fine! Completely possible to love more than 1 person, maybe you love her like family?
@godessofpain were not married, only engaged just now. The feelings i have for my friend are the feelings i had for my partner when we got together in the beginning. This all sucks. Big prickly cactus sucks.
@godessofpain also these feelings arent hurting anyone thankfully. The only person theyre hurting is myself, its tearing my head up its that level of i have no idea what to do