NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER.....BUTTTTTT

[Willow]

If you are not supposed to judge a book by its cover, then when you go to the library how else are you supposed to have a book catch your eye?
And as a bonus point, do looks matter in a relationship? Lets be real

[Lucifer]

They matter UNTIL you're in love. I'm sure you've noticed many couples who are madly in love yet clearly are not on par with one another in the looks department. Looks matter most in the initial courtship.

But I can tell you one thing: the most attractive person eventually becomes ugly.
Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
If your significant other faces an accident or a disease would one leave them because they are ugly?

Would it matter if the girl you love looks like this

or like this

or like this

or like this

All that matters is the loving and caring Monica inside.

P.S. Average looking guys have absolutely nothing to worry about. If you're not downright hideous and you play your cards right, you have a very good chance of winning over the girl and having a long-lasting relationship.

[US poet]

@willoww of course they do. If you're not attracted to the person it will never last.

[WtfJudith]

Looks are the first thing that'll catch your attention, then you speak to that person and if their personality doesn't suit you, you let them go even though you were attracted to them.

It'll be harder for you to connect with someone who you don't find attractive, but I think it's still possible.

[Abby.83]

Honestly I prefer books that do not have covers so that I only see the name on the side of the book. That means the book is usually warn. Warn meaning a lot of people have read it meaning it’s a good book! Smarties! but when it comes to relationships I am very old fashioned. Yes looks do start off because you have to find your partner attractive. But after you get past the looks a relationship is basically the same thing as a book. You are flipping through a different page every day. Finding something new. Something you didn’t notice before. Something that makes you understand them even better. And when you think your done just reread the book again. You will catch new things that you never noticed before. And yes that book had a cover and the cover is what us hoomans call love.

[Sammy]

Yes they do...
You get attracted to that person obviously on the basis of looks.
Never saw a girl falling for theories and formulaes created by some scientist
So yeah it all starts from 'looks'

[Catwoman]

When I buy a book, rather than the cover I let myself be guided by the opinions of the people who already bought it, from the critics or by my own intuition, but that doesn't apply to people. Soo, although the important thing in a bf/gf is the personality, looks also matter, it's impossible to maintain a relationship if you do not feel minimally attracted to him/her.

[sup]

@Willoww The English idiom "don't judge a book by its cover" is a metaphorical phrase which means "you shouldn't prejudge the worth or value of something by its outward appearance alone".And I usually judge a book by reading the synopsis
But yes in a relationship looks matter in the initial stages but we all know that inner beauty matters more than outer beauty. People who are able to find both are lucky asf.

[suerra]

Yes And no someone can be ugly but an amazing person vice versa for pretty people

[Azriel]

Books don't have hands. And first of all, I did not throw my eye.

P.S. I'm just bored.
P.P.S. Sorry for this non-sense repl.
P.P.P.S. I can't spell.

[WtfJudith]

@azriel smartass Lol

[suerra]

@wtfjudith Hehe i was at a salon... creepy mannequin heads

[WtfJudith]

@suerra feels like one of them will move as soon as I stop looking haha

[PoPo159]

@willoww the cover draws you to the book, the content/summary on the back makes you actually invest time and money to read it. Same with relationships.

[Willow]

@cam780 @WtfJudith shits getting real here deep ass questions

[Cam780]

@willoww Ass deep?

[Cam780]

@suerra But was i truly ever in there???????????

[WtfJudith]

@cam780 stap it, you're making me question my existence now

[suerra]

@wtfjudith freaking Judith now i cant unsee that:-D

[Devesh Sharma]

@wtfjudith butt matters hehe