@Whatever77 I have been in a place where I felt like I needed to please people to keep them happy or feel right within myself. It was actually toxic for me and the built up feelings of angst were burning me out. It took a long time to realise that it's a futile endeavour. There is a problem with that environment. People shouldn't expect us to bend to their whim all time but equally if we allow it by not trying be our authentic self then people will generally not try to help us change. The answer for me was in my self talk. I had to change the way I see myself and not be threatened by other people. I don't know if your situation is similar or not. But I do know that emotionally you can't go through life trying to please other people without paying the price in your own mental or emotional stability Edit: And props to you for talking about it openly. That's a great step towards dealing with a problem

Bet, lets chat

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@Futushimo what's going on? There's a few of us (usually the ones replying) that can lend an ear or give real advice or direct you somewhere you can. Either way if you need to vent or talk, I'm around. I don't ignore but I do have shit reception at work

@bria_the_rose I am open minded too wanna discuss anything under the sun just message me. Perks of chatting with me- I don't judge people. I am a good listener. I am good at keeping secrets.

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@JRR2FKB2B6R4JPE Sigh... No, just my stupid browser. Thanks for asking though : )

@010604-Aj Well i can understand what you've been through.. I have been through the same shit tho.

Im feeling lonely

Oof msg if you would likeig.

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@mokitty76 hi

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Good luck...

@justchatamy Thank you... just a byproduct of life for me lately... im not always so gloomy